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    • RozR
      Roz @howyadoin
      last edited by

      it’s super sketch and not okay to lie about anything to get TS

      but simultaneously

      @howyadoin said in MU Peeves Thread:

      There is a prohibition on relationship roleplay with characters that have been in the game for less than two weeks. The rule applies even to returning players playing a new character.

      this is a weird rule for a game to have

      she/her | playlist

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      • PavelP
        Pavel @Roz
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        @Roz said in MU Peeves Thread:

        this is a weird rule for a game to have

        I suppose it might make sense on a game where new characters explicitly can’t have known each other previously… but I imagine it’s more likely a case of a staffer with more than a few bad experiences crying “enough is enough.”

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          howyadoin @Roz
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          @Roz Yeah - I didn’t want to go on the “good vs. bad policy” side quest, because the policy really isn’t any part of the issue in this scenario.

          For, you see, “Pat” also broke the rule with players who were willing to break the rule. Or who at the very least weren’t looking to verify with an obviously new character that they weren’t breaking the rule.

          But “Pat” wasn’t satisfied and couldn’t be happy limiting themself to just those players who were fine with being complicit.

          “Pat” just had to also pursue players who were actively trying to follow the rule, and manipulate them.

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          • KestrelK
            Kestrel
            last edited by Kestrel

            I think it’s a good rule. It prevents a couple things simultaneously:

            1. Newbies being hounded out the gate for TS
            2. The game turning into a “sex game” because people join just for that and ignore everything else. A 2 week pause means you need to focus some on story first.

            That said, maybe I’m just prude, but I can’t help but victim blame Pat’s e-bedmates a little. Because you couldn’t be deceived about someone being on the game for under two weeks if you yourself were waiting at least two weeks to get to know another player/character before you jump to TS.

            In terms of outrage if not enforcement, the spirit of the rule matters a little more than me than the rule itself. And idk guys. Like how indiscriminate are you being that you manage to get “tricked” by someone running through half the who list in half a month? When are you finding enough time for proper introductory scenes and flirting in between? For this to work, a substantial portion of the playerbase would already have to be treating the game like an orgy.

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            • RozR
              Roz @Kestrel
              last edited by Roz

              @Kestrel said in MU Peeves Thread:

              I think it’s a good rule. It prevents a couple things simultaneously:

              1. Newbies being hounded out the gate for TS
              2. The game turning into a “sex game” because people join just for that and ignore everything else. A 2 week pause means you need to focus some on story first.

              it’s not going to prevent either of those things, and people having shippy RP early isn’t what turns a game into a sex game.

              plus now if someone even just mixes up dates and the other person gets super toxic on them, there is leverage hanging over them to not report bad behavior to staff.

              That said, maybe I’m just prude, but I can’t help but victim blame Pat’s e-bedmates a little. Because you couldn’t be deceived about someone being on the game for under two weeks if you yourself were waiting at least two weeks to get to know another player/character before you jump to TS.

              In terms of outrage if not enforcement, the spirit of the rule matters a little more than me than the rule itself. And idk guys. Like how indiscriminate are you being that you manage to get “tricked” by someone running through half the who list in half a month? When are you finding enough time for proper introductory scenes and flirting in between? For this to work, a substantial portion of the playerbase would already have to be treating the game like an orgy.

              yeeeeeeah this all just sounds slut-shamey. you’re literally like “well if you hadn’t been so slutty to jump into TS so fast, you wouldn’t have gotten lied to.”

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              • spiriferidaS
                spiriferida @Kestrel
                last edited by spiriferida

                @Kestrel

                The way you prevent your game from becoming a sex game is just… Don’t make it a game focused around sex? I know L&L is popular and might be a place where you have to worry about people jumping into relationships but it’s pretty easy to make a game where the draw of themes and content of the RP itself isn’t just relationships. I get that your average MU player might try and make any random game into their personal sandbox regardless, but hassling people for relationships is bad behavior whether or not the target has been in game for 2 days or 6 years, so just make that the bannable behavior and keep open lines of communication with new players as they get settled in.

                ETA: also in this age of slower RP a 2-week ban can still mean someone’s second rp scene is sex based, 2 weeks is nothing.

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                  Ominous @spiriferida
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                  @spiriferida For L&L, really play up the politics, intrigue, animosity between rival families, and management aspects to the level that no one has time to knock boots on screen.

                  Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam

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                  • WizzW
                    Wizz @howyadoin
                    last edited by

                    @howyadoin said in MU Peeves Thread:

                    Yeah - I didn’t want to go on the “good vs. bad policy” side quest,

                    stop a debate about a game policy?

                    here?

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                    • helveticaH
                      helvetica @Ominous
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                      @Ominous said in MU Peeves Thread:

                      @spiriferida For L&L, really play up the politics, intrigue, animosity between rival families, and management aspects to the level that no one has time to knock boots on screen.

                      Demand characters have so many administrative skills, they become virtually unfuckable.

                      Street Cred

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                      • TezT
                        Tez Administrators @helvetica
                        last edited by

                        @helvetica said in MU Peeves Thread:

                        @Ominous said in MU Peeves Thread:

                        @spiriferida For L&L, really play up the politics, intrigue, animosity between rival families, and management aspects to the level that no one has time to knock boots on screen.

                        Demand characters have so many administrative skills, they become virtually unfuckable.

                        Joke’s on you, I’m into that shit

                        she/they

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                          Muscle Car @Tez
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                          @Tez The Administrator’s Thinly Veiled Fetish! That means every time you interact here…🫣

                          Got what you wanted, lost what you had.

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                          • YamY
                            Yam
                            last edited by Yam

                            My question is, if a game is going to have a policy that forbids getting into a relationship with another character that hasn’t been around for more than two weeks yet (and they can have whatever policy they want), surely there would be a way for the other player to check the actual sheet date of that character’s creation… right? SURELY?

                            I’m not entirely sure what I’d do if someone spanked me for flirting stupidly at my friend’s character on day 13, admittedly.

                            And yeah, note that this is unrelated to people lying, that sucks.

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                            • TezT
                              Tez Administrators @Muscle Car
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                              @Muscle-Car Why do you think I’m always so eager to fork threads?

                              she/they

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                              • saoS
                                sao @howyadoin
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                                @howyadoin this person seems like a creep & liar who needs a solid dose of the banhammer but I never think OOC lying is okay with or without hardons

                                let it be a challenge to you

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                                  InkGolem @Pavel
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                                  @Pavel said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                  @Third-Eye said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                  Gdoc porn with a friend

                                  The last thing I want is Google giving me an AI summary of my TS.

                                  Could be worse. Could give it to Gemini Notebook and have it generate a podcast with two fake people talking about your TS.

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                                    Ominous @Tez
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                                    @Tez said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                    @helvetica said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                    Demand characters have so many administrative skills, they become virtually unfuckable.

                                    Joke’s on you, I’m into that shit

                                    TIL that shibari with Red Tape is a thing.

                                    Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam

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