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    • spiriferidaS
      spiriferida @tsar
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      @tsar we didn’t get to that point in the discussion, but they were kind enough to clarify that they only meant my RP time, not my time in general.

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      • MourneM
        Mourne
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        Please, it’s ok if you have to go AFK, but if it’s going to be like, an hour… let me know before hand if you could? That’d be swell.

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        • Duke WhiskyD
          Duke Whisky
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          It’s like being on a PDD. You do your community service hours and report every second Monday to the DA’s office to update them.

          Current Projects:

          Twitch -> https://www.twitch.tv/dukewhisky

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          • farfallaF
            farfalla @spiriferida
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            @spiriferida one thing I don’t understand about that is – what do you rp about? If you’re always together?

            as previously stated, good day.

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            • HerjaH
              Herja @farfalla
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              @farfalla hanky panky

              lol lmao

              It's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me

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              • farfallaF
                farfalla @Herja
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                @Herja the only man I’ll ever love

                as previously stated, good day.

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                • crawfishC
                  crawfish @farfalla
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                  @farfalla my favorite long term romantic RP happened in a vacuum, it was very episodic with lots of emotional crisis and character flaws and injected drama from background characters and obstacles.

                  But it was never ‘just with them’, we had other RP and stories we told with other people.

                  And then it evolved into adventures and other stories and worlds and jumping into online places with other people and honestly I think I accrued many friends from that kind of start.

                  My less favorites were from possessive partners that were like the original peeve. I don’t stick around for those types longer than a single scene, long enough for me to go ‘oh no not another one’.

                  I draw things! http://www.mahaldoodles.com

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                  • tsarT
                    tsar @spiriferida
                    last edited by

                    @spiriferida said in MU Peeves Thread:

                    @tsar we didn’t get to that point in the discussion, but they were kind enough to clarify that they only meant my RP time, not my time in general.

                    Oh wow, that’s so generous of them.

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                    • PavelP
                      Pavel @spiriferida
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                      @spiriferida said in MU Peeves Thread:

                      The notion that a romantic partner to my character should be the person I spend the most time RPing with - 70% of it, apparently.

                      unsurprisingly my character is no longer in a relationship

                      Honestly, this seems to be a common expectation. Not that exact number, obviously, but the idea that IC significant-others should be the priority in RP.

                      I don’t like RPing with the same person over and over and over, I like to share the love as it were. So if I’ve already RP’d with someone that week (or so) then I don’t really like RPing with them again until I’ve had some scenes with others.

                      He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                      BE AN ADULT

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                      • BirdieB
                        Birdie
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                        My RP relationship peeve stems off this topic. While I surely cannot devote all my time to an IC relationship (definitely not 70%), I’ve recently been triggered by my need for monogamy and my settling for don’t ask don’t tell. My character mentioned this was such a great aspect of their relationship because she didn’t want to know of the other people, if there were other people, and the person my character was with literally replied with something like “you should meet them…” Only to then find out someone who triggered me on game earlier was still in the partner’s rotation of lovers.

                        I basically told the player I couldn’t do this even if I enjoyed the story, even if I still thought they were very nice and had fun while it lasted. I was just so triggered. Now I’m hesitant to involve any character that deeply because I will feel guilty for not being on enough to satisfy the IC relationship needs of the other player. I know this sounds super messed up and it’s a very low self-esteem thing. It’s just a bad trigger. I want to be ‘cool’ and all monogamy is for the birds, but I would be lying to myself and the other person.

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                        • MourneM
                          Mourne @Birdie
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                          @Birdie Something you said here kind of triggered me in a way.

                          It’s ok to be monogamous. It doesn’t have to have anything to do with self-esteem. Some people are just not built for polygamy and that is perfectly ok. Don’t feel like you’ve done /anything/ wrong by not wanting to be in a polygamous relationship.

                          Don’t ask, don’t tell, I don’t know if I could even go that far with some characters, and I know I couldn’t RL so please, don’t feel like you’ve done anything wrong.

                          You set up a line, a boundary, and /they/ pushed it, broke it, and hop scotched right across it. That is not your fault, they disrespected your boundaries and your choices.

                          Very not cool of them.

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                            eye8urcake
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                            At this point, I personally am so off the mere IDEA of IC/RP relationships that I can’t see ever having anything but off-screen significant others.

                            That’s something that can/will change if I feel the right ‘click’ between my PC and another, but honestly, at this point? I kind of hope that never happens.

                            It’s nice not to feel like I ‘owe’ any one person or story anything whenever I login, that I can just glance at WHO, glance at messages/messengers, browse boards and choose something that suits my mood at the moment and go for it without worrying about the consequences of someone else’s feelings.

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                            • DrQuinnD
                              DrQuinn
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                              Years and years and years ago I got into an IC relationship with someone and I made it very clear that I was not interested in any jealousy RP or cheating storylines or anything like that. They swore up and down OOCly and ICly that the IC relationship was The One and The Best Love Story Ever Told etc, etc. and it was really, really fun.

                              And then one day in my standard bar scene RP I was confronted by The Other Woman. Turned out there were several other people the player had been winding up and he had been looking forward to the big blowout fight over his PC. I noped out of there instantly.

                              Since then I really tend to just do IC relationships with people I know and trust OOCly.

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                              • juniperskyJ
                                junipersky Administrators
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                                My favorite was my neurotic greenrider with @tsar 's alt because when it was done we stayed friends and I liked that. It doesn’t always go that way.

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                                • L. B. HeuschkelL
                                  L. B. Heuschkel
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                                  I am very cautious these days. I am not looking for an OOC romance – happily married in real life, thank you. I am not looking for a stalker. I’m not looking to be accused of being a stalker. I’m not looking for an Indian scammer convincing me and half a dozen others to send her money during a life crisis. I’m not looking for a supposed friend who suddenly drops contact with no warning and then acts as if I’d murdered their firstborn.

                                  All of the above have happened.

                                  When I can find somebody who’s interested in OOC chill and IC drama, with respect for boundaries and not wanting to be the only person I play with though? I’m game.

                                  Any pronouns. Come to Chincoteague. We have ponies. http://keys.aresmush.com

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                                  • PavelP
                                    Pavel @L. B. Heuschkel
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                                    @L-B-Heuschkel said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                    I’m not looking for an Indian scammer convincing me and half a dozen others to send her money during a life crisis.

                                    … well there goes my plan to start a gofundme.

                                    He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                    BE AN ADULT

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                                    • L. B. HeuschkelL
                                      L. B. Heuschkel @Pavel
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                                      @Pavel That’s exactly what she did.

                                      Any pronouns. Come to Chincoteague. We have ponies. http://keys.aresmush.com

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                                      • farfallaF
                                        farfalla
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                                        This is why I almost exclusively ship with friends. The risk is high with strangers.

                                        as previously stated, good day.

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                                          RightMeow @L. B. Heuschkel
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                                          @L-B-Heuschkel

                                          I TRIED!! You /denied/ me. I even fed the cat.
                                          LOL ❤

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                                          • L. B. HeuschkelL
                                            L. B. Heuschkel @RightMeow
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                                            @RightMeow said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                            @L-B-Heuschkel

                                            I TRIED!! You /denied/ me. I even fed the cat.
                                            LOL ❤

                                            <laugh> And, of course, the characters have to click! No, really, I take a very long time making up my mind to try something like it because I’ve been very badly burned a handful of times and games are supposed to not be stressful, you know? ❤

                                            Any pronouns. Come to Chincoteague. We have ponies. http://keys.aresmush.com

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