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Bannings
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@IoleRae Thanks! Glad to be here.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
Agree, it’s just not a great look
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
It also involves talking to people you don’t like who won’t listen to you or care about what you think. That’s just bad for the blood pressure.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards.
And it’s confusing for those of us with certain posters still blocked on msb.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
And not for nothing, but I by no means want to give anyone on MSB the idea that they live rent free in anyone’s head. Because they’re not worth the time.
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Walking into that place blind was a trip. Gaslit at light speed. I’m still reeling.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
I don’t think @tsar was saying we should argue across boards, just that Derp is apparently super obsessed with me for whatever reason and keeps coming back here to give more ammo for whatever he’s claiming we’re doing to them.
Derp, get over it, I’m just not that into you.
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@bear_necessities I may be oblivious on this because I haven’t been reading the other board. But, what did you say that’d cause that? Not saying it’s not true or anything.
I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021
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@Testament i’m mostly being sarcastic. He recently linked to my post here as “proof” that we are continuing to be terrorists or whatever. And before that, it was either him or Gany that @tted me on MSB for no apparent reason.
But, mostly making a joke
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
That wasn’t something I was suggesting anyone here do.
I was commenting on the bizarre state of them having banned a poster, only to find their posts on this board, to go back and argue about/with them across outer space.
I don’t think it’s worthwhile to attempt to argue across boards. And I’m a little hurt that it feels like you were assuming I was encouraging people to do that.
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I mean, SOME OF US were banned despite not breaking any rules, so. Not much of a choice on where to do the thing.
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When I was a kid I had a friend whose parents were getting divorced, and when I would go over there it would be really weird to hear the dad dropping comments that were clearly meant to make my friend feel like his mom was a bad person.
That’s what it felt like being over there for the hot minute I was, lacking the context of y’alls long history.
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@tsar The discussion in the thread has leaned a little towards that in the past, and I was over sensitive to the possibility of it kicking into a higher gear. I apologize for misinterpreting you!
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I feel like for everyone’s sanity:
Here should stop being concerned for what is said over there. Attacks or not. It is just continues building up the hurt everyone is feeling about how it all went down.
MSB should also stop worrying about what is done here. Many here have made their bad feels clear and they have too. Keeping paying attention to what is done here is just going to cause more hurt feels.
Basically, everyone has their bad feels about everything and miss being ‘one’ community and it is a community even if it is various groups. Even if people don’t hang out together outside what is of interest they are still a community. Neighborhoods, hobby get togethers, schools, cons, etc are all considered a community of sorts even if not everyone gets along.
I’m all for missing being a single community. At this point, though, I think it is hurting both sides more than anything to keep talking about what the other side is doing.
A final note before I stop engaging in discussing what MSB is doing: I am VERY confused to why @bear_necessities was used as an ‘example’ of ‘bad actors’ on BMD. I have literally said way worse than anything Bear has said. So have others. I do not deny that /I/ have made comments that can 100% be considered personal attacks against some on MSB. Bear, at most, expressed displeasure in a far more reasonable and brief way. IF anything, I should have been one of the people cited as an ‘attacker’ on MSB. I imagine the only reason I am not is because I also add along the lines of ‘More power to them for doing their own thing.’ Citing Bear as a ‘big bad’ is petty at best.
PS. I don’t mean people should stop being part of both boards, if that is their desire. Nothing wrong with being part of both. Nor is defending against what people feel is an injustice against those they care about.
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@Testament said in Bannings:
We can look at this from perspective of ‘something that was lost’, but anything really lost?
I think so. But I am biased.
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@Arkandel That’s fair, and by no means am I trying to degrade your time running MSB. But these changes to that place were not ones that you put into place.
I suppose the memory of what was should be kept, but also the fact that what can come after can be better.
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The hill of “Derp did nothing wrong and has never done anything wrong” looks to be more and more like the one he’s going to literally die on. Dude was a central figure in what went down and refuses to acknowledge that he’s fucked up how he’s handled this multiple ways.
That’s still the thing that bugs me the most at this point.
