Bannings
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@IoleRae Holy shit, you’d think after the extensive discussion about how people who sidle up to you on the DL and whisper about what other people say about you is classic asshole behavior this guy would be smarter than that.
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@IoleRae Okay, sorry. I was trying to be nice. I’ll just go away now.
Oh, look! We found a nice guy in the wild.
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@IoleRae Fuck this dude.
You know, I wasn’t going to fucking address him directly because he’s not here in good faith and this just proves it.
Hey @hobos. Looks like your manipulative buddy VK has been teaching you well. When someone says IN THIS FUCKING THREAD that the shit that VK was saying about them traumatized them, how about you don’t go and fish for details through DM, you absolute clown show by teasing out that they said ‘damning things’. What in the fuck is wrong with you?
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who the fuck THREATENS SOMEBODY by saying “I am going to tell everyone these damning lies that somebody else told about you” and then claims they are being NICE?
the entity previously known as Sunny
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@Snackness Indeed. Sorry clicked too fast. Indeed, my cowardly behavior is showing again…does anyone know my next line?
It has been fixed. (edited due to bad giffing)
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trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.
But in general. lol
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trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.
But in general. lol
Seeing that little bit made me giggle. I considered cropping it out, but decided other people would giggle, too.
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trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.
But in general. lol
Seeing that little bit made me giggle. I considered cropping it out, but decided other people would giggle, too.
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@IoleRae
Nobody with half a brain cell would believe him, considering the source, but I’m sorry that happened to you it was very gross. -
@hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.
If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.
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@IoleRae thank you for putting that shit on blast. Nasty behavior like that should absolutely be called out publicly.
I don’t know how twisted up you have to be to think that sleazy intimation like that is “nice”.
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@hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.
If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.
Hard no. I don’t believe that this was a genuine attempt to gain insight. This was a revictimization and low-key a threat to reveal “damning information” to everyone else.
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@helvetica said in Bannings:
@hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.
If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.
Hard no. I don’t believe that this was a genuine attempt to gain insight. This was a revictimization and low-key a threat to reveal “damning information” to everyone else.
thank you. A lot. Like, I do not have words for how much I appreciate you saying this. Where everybody can see it.
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@helvetica maybe. Idk. Like, I don’t think the behavior was ok, but I am willing to believe in a good faith basis.
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@Meg your kindness speaks well of you, but I think in this case it is misguided. This person has been too disingenuous too many times for me to join you in the benefit of the doubt.
However, I applaud your compassionate and generous nature. I wish there were more of you in the world.
