Bannings
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who the fuck THREATENS SOMEBODY by saying “I am going to tell everyone these damning lies that somebody else told about you” and then claims they are being NICE?
the entity previously known as Sunny
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@Snackness Indeed. Sorry clicked too fast. Indeed, my cowardly behavior is showing again…does anyone know my next line?
It has been fixed. (edited due to bad giffing)
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trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.
But in general. lol
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trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.
But in general. lol
Seeing that little bit made me giggle. I considered cropping it out, but decided other people would giggle, too.
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trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.
But in general. lol
Seeing that little bit made me giggle. I considered cropping it out, but decided other people would giggle, too.
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@IoleRae
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@hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.
If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.
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@IoleRae thank you for putting that shit on blast. Nasty behavior like that should absolutely be called out publicly.
I don’t know how twisted up you have to be to think that sleazy intimation like that is “nice”.
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@hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.
If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.
Hard no. I don’t believe that this was a genuine attempt to gain insight. This was a revictimization and low-key a threat to reveal “damning information” to everyone else.
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@helvetica said in Bannings:
@hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.
If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.
Hard no. I don’t believe that this was a genuine attempt to gain insight. This was a revictimization and low-key a threat to reveal “damning information” to everyone else.
thank you. A lot. Like, I do not have words for how much I appreciate you saying this. Where everybody can see it.
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@helvetica maybe. Idk. Like, I don’t think the behavior was ok, but I am willing to believe in a good faith basis.
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@Meg your kindness speaks well of you, but I think in this case it is misguided. This person has been too disingenuous too many times for me to join you in the benefit of the doubt.
However, I applaud your compassionate and generous nature. I wish there were more of you in the world.
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Wow. I was really shaken by that reaction. After a little thought I decided to come back and say one last thing…
I was not threatening you, Sunny. I was explaining why I didn’t just ask you in front of everybody in this thread. Everyone keeps saying VK is lying to me, and you yourself said you were dismayed by how many people believed untruths about you, so I was giving the courtesy of a chance to tell your side of the story. I didn’t want to say what I’d heard up front because yes the thought crossed my mind that you might find it traumatizing, which I even mentioned as a reason you might not want to reply? There was a time I really respected, admired, and appreciated you. I’m sorry you felt threatened. That is all.
Had no idea you were so upset, or that you had blocked me elsewhere, and I have no intention of continuing this further.
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@hobos Thank you for not continuing this further.
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Wow. I was really shaken by that reaction. After a little thought I decided to come back and say one last thing…
I was not threatening you, Sunny. I was explaining why I didn’t just ask you in front of everybody in this thread. Everyone keeps saying VK is lying to me, and you yourself said you were dismayed by how many people believed untruths about you, so I was giving the courtesy of a chance to tell your side of the story. I didn’t want to say what I’d heard up front because yes the thought crossed my mind that you might find it traumatizing, which I even mentioned as a reason you might not want to reply? There was a time I really respected, admired, and appreciated you. I’m sorry you felt threatened. That is all.
Had no idea you were so upset, or that you had blocked me elsewhere, and I have no intention of continuing this further.
THEN STOP CONTINUING IT FURTHER
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I think if he’d led with logs I’d have felt more threatened because such things would have to have been faked. I have him blocked on multiple platforms, but had not yet blocked him here.
the entity previously known as Sunny
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