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    • BloodAngelB
      BloodAngel @Snackness
      last edited by BloodAngel

      @Snackness Indeed. Sorry clicked too fast. Indeed, my cowardly behavior is showing again…does anyone know my next line?

      It has been fixed. (edited due to bad giffing)

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      • hellfrogH
        hellfrog @hobos
        last edited by

        trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.

        But in general. lol

        2a25d232-c716-4a38-b779-56a175aebcfc-image.png

        fr fr
        (she/her)

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        • TezT
          Tez Administrators @hobos
          last edited by

          @hobos said in Bannings:

          @IoleRae Okay, sorry. I was trying to be nice. I’ll just go away now.

          This was neither nice or nor kind. Please consider this a warning not to DM people to antagonize them over this person – or, indeed, MSB in general.

          she/they

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          • IoleRaeI
            IoleRae @hellfrog
            last edited by

            @hellfrog said in Bannings:

            trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.

            But in general. lol

            2a25d232-c716-4a38-b779-56a175aebcfc-image.png

            Seeing that little bit made me giggle. I considered cropping it out, but decided other people would giggle, too.

            the entity previously known as Sunny

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            • helveticaH
              helvetica @IoleRae
              last edited by

              @IoleRae said in Bannings:

              @hellfrog said in Bannings:

              trying to be NICE. Wow. At least the trash offered to carry itself out.

              But in general. lol

              2a25d232-c716-4a38-b779-56a175aebcfc-image.png

              Seeing that little bit made me giggle. I considered cropping it out, but decided other people would giggle, too.

              good for her

              Street Cred

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              • Third EyeT
                Third Eye @IoleRae
                last edited by

                @IoleRae
                Nobody with half a brain cell would believe him, considering the source, but I’m sorry that happened to you it was very gross.

                I want something else to get me through this
                Semi-charmed kinda life, baby, baby
                I want something else, I'm not listening when you say good-bye

                She/Her or They/Them

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                • MegM
                  Meg @hobos
                  last edited by

                  @hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.

                  If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.

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                  • saoS
                    sao @IoleRae
                    last edited by

                    @IoleRae thank you for putting that shit on blast. Nasty behavior like that should absolutely be called out publicly.

                    I don’t know how twisted up you have to be to think that sleazy intimation like that is “nice”.

                    let it be a challenge to you

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                    • helveticaH
                      helvetica @Meg
                      last edited by

                      @Meg said in Bannings:

                      @hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.

                      If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.

                      Hard no. I don’t believe that this was a genuine attempt to gain insight. This was a revictimization and low-key a threat to reveal “damning information” to everyone else.

                      Street Cred

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                      • IoleRaeI
                        IoleRae @helvetica
                        last edited by IoleRae

                        @helvetica said in Bannings:

                        @Meg said in Bannings:

                        @hobos hey, I am sorry. I believe you were trying to be nice and just phrased things badly. But in the future, including ‘fairly damning’ in your opening message when you are talking to someone who has openly said that said person has lied about her and harassed her is pretty rough.

                        If you wanted to lead with what she had told you about Sunny/lolaRae, that may have gone over better. Like, ‘hey, this is what VK told me in regards to you, this is the logs she showed me. Would you be willing to discuss this?’. Or, idk.

                        Hard no. I don’t believe that this was a genuine attempt to gain insight. This was a revictimization and low-key a threat to reveal “damning information” to everyone else.

                        thank you. A lot. Like, I do not have words for how much I appreciate you saying this. Where everybody can see it.

                        the entity previously known as Sunny

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                        • MegM
                          Meg @helvetica
                          last edited by

                          @helvetica maybe. Idk. Like, I don’t think the behavior was ok, but I am willing to believe in a good faith basis.

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                          • saoS
                            sao @Meg
                            last edited by

                            @Meg your kindness speaks well of you, but I think in this case it is misguided. This person has been too disingenuous too many times for me to join you in the benefit of the doubt.

                            However, I applaud your compassionate and generous nature. I wish there were more of you in the world.

                            let it be a challenge to you

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                            • H
                              hobos
                              last edited by

                              Wow. I was really shaken by that reaction. After a little thought I decided to come back and say one last thing…

                              I was not threatening you, Sunny. I was explaining why I didn’t just ask you in front of everybody in this thread. Everyone keeps saying VK is lying to me, and you yourself said you were dismayed by how many people believed untruths about you, so I was giving the courtesy of a chance to tell your side of the story. I didn’t want to say what I’d heard up front because yes the thought crossed my mind that you might find it traumatizing, which I even mentioned as a reason you might not want to reply? There was a time I really respected, admired, and appreciated you. I’m sorry you felt threatened. That is all.

                              Had no idea you were so upset, or that you had blocked me elsewhere, and I have no intention of continuing this further.

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                              • TezT
                                Tez Administrators @hobos
                                last edited by

                                @hobos Thank you for not continuing this further.

                                she/they

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                                • helveticaH
                                  helvetica @hobos
                                  last edited by helvetica

                                  @hobos said in Bannings:

                                  Wow. I was really shaken by that reaction. After a little thought I decided to come back and say one last thing…

                                  I was not threatening you, Sunny. I was explaining why I didn’t just ask you in front of everybody in this thread. Everyone keeps saying VK is lying to me, and you yourself said you were dismayed by how many people believed untruths about you, so I was giving the courtesy of a chance to tell your side of the story. I didn’t want to say what I’d heard up front because yes the thought crossed my mind that you might find it traumatizing, which I even mentioned as a reason you might not want to reply? There was a time I really respected, admired, and appreciated you. I’m sorry you felt threatened. That is all.

                                  Had no idea you were so upset, or that you had blocked me elsewhere, and I have no intention of continuing this further.

                                  buh bye

                                  THEN STOP CONTINUING IT FURTHER

                                  Street Cred

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                                  • IoleRaeI
                                    IoleRae @Meg
                                    last edited by

                                    @Meg

                                    I think if he’d led with logs I’d have felt more threatened because such things would have to have been faked. I have him blocked on multiple platforms, but had not yet blocked him here.

                                    the entity previously known as Sunny

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                                    • BloodAngelB
                                      BloodAngel @hobos
                                      last edited by

                                      @hobos last word

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                                      • MegM
                                        Meg @IoleRae
                                        last edited by Meg

                                        @IoleRae that’s fair. I am just trying to see it from his side of like, how to approach a delicate situation like this. Of trying to get the other side of the story when you have been publicly on one side of it.

                                        It would be rough, and there wouldn’t be a lot of ‘good’ ways to do it. I guess in the end, there wouldn’t be a way to get the other side? But I know a lot of us are here because we like hearing all sides of a story, openly.

                                        ETA: just saw the call for frog choke memes. Consider this dropped by me too.

                                        Frog choke

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                                        • TezT
                                          Tez Administrators
                                          last edited by

                                          If @IoleRae has anything to say here, by all means, you have every right – but otherwise, I’d ask THE REST OF US to return to frog choke memes.

                                          she/they

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                                          • IoleRaeI
                                            IoleRae @hobos
                                            last edited by IoleRae

                                            @hobos said in Bannings:

                                            Wow. I was really shaken by that reaction. After a little thought I decided to come back and say one last thing…

                                            I was not threatening you, Sunny. I was explaining why I didn’t just ask you in front of everybody in this thread. Everyone keeps saying VK is lying to me, and you yourself said you were dismayed by how many people believed untruths about you, so I was giving the courtesy of a chance to tell your side of the story. I didn’t want to say what I’d heard up front because yes the thought crossed my mind that you might find it traumatizing, which I even mentioned as a reason you might not want to reply? There was a time I really respected, admired, and appreciated you. I’m sorry you felt threatened. That is all.

                                            Had no idea you were so upset, or that you had blocked me elsewhere, and I have no intention of continuing this further.

                                            But I did tell my side of the story before you ever PMd me. SHE LIED. NONE OF IT WAS TRUE. what on earth could I possibly have said besides “what she told you is untrue”. Hearing whatever nastiness she said about me is productive how? Especially given I was very recently talking about how all of that was traumatic?

                                            What benefit do you think there is to me to hearing somebody’s lies about me, and what on earth did you expect me to say? You believe her. It’s a lie. There isn’t a “side” to tell because the things she’s telling you didn’t happen at all.

                                            I don’t believe you that you don’t know I have you blocked.

                                            @Meg

                                            I get it, but there isn’t like a side. I didn’t DO anything.

                                            the entity previously known as Sunny

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