JKER Banned Discussion Thread
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@GF Don’t worry. She’s not drinking AT you. She’s pouring the drink FOR you.
In the interest of full transparency, I am the one who was not sure that his behavior yet rose to the standard we set of ‘repeated, egregious crossing of asshole/troll line’ in our guidelines, which is why I suggested that GF be the one to post – and GF did so before the other two weighed in. They may have felt otherwise.
This did not factor into my calculation but also JKER’s example was terrible? IoleRae was nothing but compassionate and sensible in the thread they linked? I wish all of my enemies only had good things to say about me.
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@Tez said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:
I wish all of my enemies only had good things to say about me.
It’s okay.
Nobody talks about you.
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@GF I will take part of the blame for pointing out that MSB was dead for like two weeks, and maybe summoned somebody upset by that fact and NEEDED to come stir shit. My bad.
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@GF said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:
@Roz I’m sorry if I shouldn’t have said anything, but the mods want to know if this is happening to anyone else and wanted me to be the one to ask since if I’m the only one getting this kind of hatemail, them asking if anyone else has done it would out me anyway.
Oh my gosh, no not at all!! I was going WTF at JKER for the behavior you described.
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I don’t understand. How is that NOT creepy-ass behavior?
Someone cold DMs someone here about how IoleRae is a bad person, after them kind of really sharply reacting to her in the first place in the thread more strongly than anyone else replying, linking to MSB about a thread they claim she’s being a bad person in?
I’m sorry, but that’s just gross. And she’s already had to deal with a weirdo trying to poke at her here pretty publicly early on.
It’s true that IR is a friend, but as someone who was only kind of skimming I was like wow this dude has it out for her for some weird reason. A DM like that to a 3rd party is not a good sign.
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@mietze said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:
I don’t understand. How is that NOT creepy-ass behavior?
It’s being a creepy asshole, sure. We’re restricted from acting unless it’s:
Repeated and egregious crossing of the asshole/troll line such that it makes the board an unpleasant place to be.
That’s why we want to know if others have experienced the same thing.
He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
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@mietze It’s asshole behavior, but I’m not sure it’s bannable behavior. We haven’t really finished discussing.
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Blanking the post to remove a badly thought out joke. Leaving post so the curious can see the edit log.
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@Pavel Wow. OK.
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@mietze It was a reference, from the before times. >_>
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@pavel that was a pretty hellish time for me. i didn’t appreciate my name being invoked then and i don’t now. didn’t think that could hurt still but it sure does.
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@mietze I am enormously sorry. I didn’t think before I wrote.
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Thank you.
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@Pavel i appreciate the apology. I hope you understand why it felt like a very low blow.
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@mietze said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:
I don’t understand. How is that NOT creepy-ass behavior?
I don’t understand how that is. Sending someone a link to a forum post doesn’t really rate for me, specifically in the context of the conversation being had.
In fact, it just kind of reinforces the argument that anyone can call anyone else creepy just to weaponize the term and expect everyone else to take it seriously.
Do I agree with anything that was said or done? No. But calling someone creepy just to trigger people’s alarms on them is also problematic. They can be held accountable for their more accurately described behavior.
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@Warma-Sheen said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:
I don’t understand how that is.
Sending private messages to someone with whom you have no prior association, simply to dredge up an old discussion with vague allusions to how this thread makes a third party a bigot or otherwise horrible? That’s pretty fuckin’ creepy.
He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
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@JKER said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:
I suggest you either just ban them off the bat or you offer actionable advise which the sexpests will still ignore
Couldn’t have said it better. We’re witnessing a poorly executed attempt to start to a whisper campaign. Gotta say if this was a game we were all playing on, I would want to see this person gone.
But we’re not on a game? I’m on the fence, it’s early, and I don’t yet have my good words. I do know that I place a higher value on making sure two existing members of our community feel comfortable in this space than I do on being fair to some rando.
