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    • juniperskyJ
      junipersky Administrators
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      This is why despite being a literal card carrying member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, husband and I will never move to Utah.

      Good gravy people.

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      • tsarT
        tsar @junipersky
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        @junipersky you mean you aren’t reporting children to their parents over super saian nutcracker!?

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        • WizzW
          Wizz @Wuff
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          @Wuff said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:

          I’d be concerned more about the school faculty being unable to tell a capital I from a T. And went straight to freaking out and so on.

          This actually did kind of recast the entire conversation I had with them in a different light. It’s making me take all of her complaints about my kid with a large grain of salt now, especially after talking to him about it and learning that he did try and correct her misunderstanding but she sort of just waved it off and ignored him and remained upset for the rest of the day in class. Just…big yikes.

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          • JumpscareJ
            Jumpscare @Wizz
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            @Wizz That’s terrible. I’m happy you encouraged your child’s creativity after that, because that kid’s got a lot of it, and it’d be a shame for the system to beat it out of them.

            Everything about that picture is top quality.

            Game-runner of Silent Heaven, a small-town horror MU.
            https://silentheaven.org

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            • juniperskyJ
              junipersky Administrators @tsar
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              @tsar

              I’m more concerned about them using ‘gay’ as an insult or vaping in the bathrooms tbh. Almost lost it on the 6/7 class last week when I heard them hurling gay around to make fun of each other. If I had seen who said it rather than just hearing their voices from around the corner of my open doorway we would have had some pointed partent meetings vs a threat of “Whomever says this again will regret it.”

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              • tsarT
                tsar @Wizz
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                @Wizz said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:

                learning that he did try and correct her misunderstanding but she sort of just waved it off and ignored him and remained upset for the rest of the day in class. Just…big yikes.

                😠

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                  Testament @Wizz
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                  @Wizz

                  dragonball

                  I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                  • LunaL
                    Luna @junipersky
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                    @junipersky said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:

                    I’m more concerned about them using ‘gay’ as an insult

                    This gave me pause at first when I started hearing it, but it’s all the queer kids doing it here.

                    Understandable, have a nice day.

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                    • tenT
                      ten @Wizz
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                      @Wizz

                      Your kid has a ton of creativity!

                      they | them

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                      • WizzW
                        Wizz @ten
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                        @moth

                        Yes he does. 😁

                        He’s just an endless well of it. He’ll spout off these ridiculous and complex hypothetical scenarios and questions all day long, every day of the week, and our apartment is practically wallpapered and carpeted with his sketches and drawings, haha. I love it.

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                        • ArkandelA
                          Arkandel @Wizz
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                          Gus thanks you all for your concern.

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                          I’m kidding, he isn’t. He only wants to know if you have treats, else he’ll go take another nap.

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                          • tsarT
                            tsar @Arkandel
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                            @Arkandel lol of course he’s a void cat

                            (<3 from fellow void cat person)

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                            • SnacknessS
                              Snackness @Arkandel
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                              @Arkandel Aaaahhhhh looka him

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                              • juniperskyJ
                                junipersky Administrators @Arkandel
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                                @Arkandel

                                I have treats! Churu, Squeeze-ups, temptations, greenies, or shall I find his perfect voidness something else?

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                                • LunaL
                                  Luna @Arkandel
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                                  @Arkandel I got the good good catnip. We can be friends.

                                  Understandable, have a nice day.

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                                  • Third EyeT
                                    Third Eye @Arkandel
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                                    @Arkandel
                                    A beautiful, maddening void. You are blessed.

                                    I want something else to get me through this
                                    Semi-charmed kinda life, baby, baby
                                    I want something else, I'm not listening when you say good-bye

                                    She/Her or They/Them

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                                      Testament @Arkandel
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                                      @Arkandel

                                      T E E F S

                                      I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                                      • ArkandelA
                                        Arkandel @Testament
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                                        Privilege is so easy to obtain. It makes well-meaning people so blind (and non-well meaning ones… worse).

                                        We have a weekly basketball run at work in the evening at a facility paid for by our company. It’s a very mixed crowd in terms of ages, departments and backgrounds, and as such it’s quite fun. It’s nice to have a break from the grind and hang out with the folks you work with on a regular basis as well as meet ones you don’t.

                                        Lately the idea has been floated to watch an NBA game. I ran a poll on our corporate chat about whether folks would prefer doing so at a sports bar or at the Scotiabank Arena, and it was pretty much a 50/50.

                                        While we were discussing it, one of the developers insisted we should go watch the real thing. I pointed out the obvious, that there were concerns that might exclude some people who can’t afford it.

                                        His response was “What? Come on, it’s just $200, it’s not like we’d get courtside seats!”.

                                        Dude. $200 is a lot of money for some people. Not everyone makes six figures. Not everyone is in their mid-twenties, with the disposable income and freedom to spend it. And making someone feel bad for not being able to join is the opposite of what this activity is meant to do.

                                        He meant well, he’s a good guy, but it got me thinking.

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                                        • TNPT
                                          TNP @Arkandel
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                                          @Arkandel Oh, gods yes. My immediate boss (one of the big boss’ sons) is the most cluelessly, privileged, straight, white boy I have ever met. At least once a week I have to bite my tongue to keep from saying something to that effect.

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                                            mietze
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                                            The last of the college kids went back today. 😞 feeling a little blue at the now mostly empty house.

                                            And also my freezer has a ton of empty food boxes in it. 😛

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