Asking for RP
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@farfalla said in Asking for RP:
Either party can set, but the burden falls on the asker if no one else wants to.
But what I’m saying is that I’m just as likely as the invitee to ask that as the inviter.
So basically the onus falls on whoever asks first “Do you want to set or shall I” because they’re implicitly offering to set if the other person doesn’t want to. Of course they could just as easily ask: “Do you mind setting?”
Though since a set could just be: “Faraday sits at the table, sipping her drink.” I don’t really see setting as a huge burden either way.
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Mea culpa, I did not qualify.
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ngl with the exception of a scene I was in over the weekend, in which someone asked me to set and I didn’t have the spoons, I feel like I set a lot even though I rarely ask for the scene… and that’s just because… usually the other person asked and in my head, that was work and now it’s my turn to do work
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@helvetica This does make sense to me.
Somehow for me, it feels like when I ask for RP you’re doing me a favor by agreeing, so why am I now asking you to do the work. This makes no sense. If someone paged “hey you want to rp? you set” I’d be annoyed, being asked to do work for them. This also makes no real sense.
as previously stated, good day.
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If I set, and you don’t say shit, greet, or even notice my character in your first pose, take off your coat because we’re fighting.
I wish you would.
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@farfalla You’ve been an org leader for too long.
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Double post to say that Darkest Timeline @Pax fightin EVERYBODY
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@Pax We should RP together the same way toddlers play “together.”
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@helvetica said in Asking for RP:
Double post to say that Darkest Timeline @Pax fightin EVERYBODY
Good! I brought enough smoke to share!
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@Pax said in Asking for RP:
@helvetica said in Asking for RP:
Double post to say that Darkest Timeline @Pax fightin EVERYBODY
Good! I brought enough smoke to share!
That’s just PAX West.
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@Pax said in Asking for RP:
If I set, and you don’t say shit, greet, or even notice my character in your first pose, take off your coat because we’re fighting.
let’s rp this sometime
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I have actually seen someone parallel RP in a scene instead of engaging with the others (and this was a scene they trawled for!).
It was a little weird and uncomfortable, but when they would rebuff/ignore all attempts to engage, we started to rp with each other while they continued to parallel. They stayed around so I think they were having a good time (or maybe not having a bad time?).
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@Pax said in Asking for RP:
@Sammich said in Asking for RP:
It’s even ‘better’ when you do try figuring out a reason only to have every single one of your suggestions shot down because it wouldn’t be ‘in character’ for them.
A lot of RP has died before it could live because it was sacrificed on the pyre of “bUt ThEy wOuLd NeVeR dO tHaT”. Cool, then I guess the rest of us are RPing and you’re scratching your ass, cheers chief.
SLANDER.
I never get ANY sacrifices.
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@Pax said in Asking for RP:
If I set, and you don’t say shit, greet, or even notice my character in your first pose, take off your coat because we’re fighting.
I set a lot, and this is infuriating. Nine times out of ten, if I’m setting, I’ve come up with SOMETHING for us to interact about, or at least draw two people together. The quality of my set does vary based on how much I know about the other PC - if they are a black hole of information, it’ll be pretty generic, but there will usually be SOMETHING.
And then some motherfucker wanders in and basically sets up doing something nowhere near what the set entailed, and now I not only had to set, but I have to get myself OUT of the situation I had set, and come over to where you’re doing fuckall? No. Hate.
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@mietze said in Asking for RP:
I have actually seen someone parallel RP in a scene instead of engaging with the others (and this was a scene they trawled for!).
It was a little weird and uncomfortable, but when they would rebuff/ignore all attempts to engage, we started to rp with each other while they continued to parallel. They stayed around so I think they were having a good time (or maybe not having a bad time?).
I used to do this when I was a shy child (15-17ish and mushing). I would go into rooms with people and RP doing my own thing in the corner to better learn how to RP.
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@mietze said in Asking for RP:
I have actually seen someone parallel RP in a scene instead of engaging with the others (and this was a scene they trawled for!).
This is weirdly common–almost the norm–on Storium, which I’ve dabbled in between MUs. It’s like everyone’s just writing their own story, loosely connected by plot threads.
I mention it only because it may be an issue of culture clash.
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I think I’m about 50 / 50 on asking / being asked, which probably means my rp partners ask all the time and I don’t realize it because I have the self awareness of a brick.
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@Pyrephox said in Asking for RP:
And then some motherfucker wanders in and basically sets up doing something nowhere near what the set entailed, and now I not only had to set, but I have to get myself OUT of the situation I had set, and come over to where you’re doing fuckall? No. Hate.
This happens to me all the time, lol. I hate it :')
Another gem is they ask to RP or are set “looking for RP”, you go say hello IC, then they RP about how disruptive and annoying you are for coming and talking to them.
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@imstillhere ah yes. the lovely ambush ask for RP.
I have played PCs where that was more common (due to their position, ect.) but usually people would be nice about it if I asked them oocly to tone it down, or to maybe reschedule for later if that’s something they needed to do but I wasn’t prepared to really do it justice.
