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Numetal/Retromux
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@Mushling-0 This shit is why I love this hobby. Where else do you get stories like this. Thanks for the report.
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@Mushling-0 said in Numetal/Retromux:
Erik or SonofThor from Arx got banned there for sexual harassment.
lmao, that fucking guy
I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021
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@Testament Oh? That bad? Spill the tea! (Edited to add the end)
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The lengths someone will go to be the prettiest princess with all the e-peen.
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@Mushling-0 I said what now? LIke seriously. Dude.
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@Mushling-0 Logs or it didn’t happen.
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@Mushling-0 And that’s taken out of context, so let’s go over everything. (Hi Sanity free)
- Kuma wanted Eirik gone w/o evidence, I said, let me investigate
- Polk wanted to investigate, I said, hold on, let me talk to people
- I talk to Sundance where Eirik and Anya (Kuma’s wife) were apparently fuckbuddies. There, I find out that when Sundance separated the two for no contact, it was ANYA WHO FIRST WENT BACK TO EIRIK.
- Let me repeat that. ANYA WENT BACK TO EIRIK. REPEATEDLY. AND CONTINUED THEIR TSing sessions
- It became toxic for both of them to where Sundance had to separate them again, and eventually Eirik quit
Sooooooooooooooooo, when I found that out, that is the context of when I foundthat out. I even explain it in the conversation. Soooooooooooooooooo…
That means @mushling-0 is either Sanityfree (who runs another game) or is Polk. Thanks. I’m done now.
I understand why people commit suicide over cyberbullying.
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Okay. That is not what happened in the slightest. It has been exaggerated far beyond the scope of what actually happened and painted to make pika look bad. That is really all I am going to say on the topic. I think the fact that the game grown far beyond where it was prior to these people exiting speaks for itself.
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@inuki said in Numetal/Retromux:
I understand why people commit suicide over cyberbullying.
This is pretty dramatic for someone who asked for receipts and then got them. Someone presenting your own words is not ‘cyberbullying’.
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@inuki said in Numetal/Retromux:
I understand why people commit suicide over cyberbullying.
gross. fucking gross.
you’re going to bring up a problem that exists in real life, and has never ever been just about MUSH drama, and bring it into MUSH drama as a way to-- what? deflect people from saying mean words on this forum?
it’s gross. be better.
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@inuki …suicide damn bro. Cause of your own words!
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@ChaoticSin said in Numetal/Retromux:
[…] painted to make pika look bad. […]
she ain’t need the help, tbh
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It’s interesting the only thing that was claimed as untrue (which then got receipts) was that they didn’t slut shame someone.
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@catzilla It’s definitely giving Britta Perry vibes.
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@inuki said in Numetal/Retromux:
I understand why people commit suicide over cyberbullying.
I am genuinely sorry you are dealing with those feelings, and I hope you reach out via whatever resources are available to you for help.
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@catzilla she claims she didn’t slut shame without reason.
and then provided no logs of her own.
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If the suggested feelings of suicide are sincere, I suggest that help be sought immediately from a qualified mental health professional who is not associated with the mushing community. Forums like this are not the right place to address such imo and for so many reasons.
https://www.mhanational.org/resources/988
You dial 988. One can also dial 911 if feeling suicidal.
If the feelings are not sincere, I would also suggest taking a break from games and mushing to focus on getting well as dropping suicide into the conversation even if not done in good faith, is a serious situation.
I wish you the very best in your real life.
I normally am not into suggesting that people need therapy as that can be condescending and trying to chair arm diagnosis. However, when suicide is brought up, I always advise getting off game professional help as quickly as possible.
The mushing community is not qualified to address feelings suicide especially on a forum like this. Even if there is a Psychologist here with experience in suicide prevention, this is not the right venue or way to get help.
There are most likely players here who have experienced the suicide of a family member or other loved one or have dealt with suicidal feelings themselves. Bringing this into the conversation has the potential to be triggering and upsetting to some people.
I can only speak for myself, but I am pretty confident that the people here only want the best for you ooc regardless of any mush dramas.
While you haven’t gone this far yet, as it was more passively hinted to “I can see why” Instead of “I feel like or am going to” threats of suicide has been used by some of the worse of creepers in mushing as a way to prevent people from sharing experiences about them, reporting them to staff, breaking up with their characters, placing down boundaries and so forth.
I once had a girl tell me if my character dumped her or flirted with another girl, she would commit suicide in real life. Not wanting harm to come to this girl, I let a toxic relationship go on longer than it should have and others probably have had similar experiences. So I don’t think we should be dropping the Suicide word lightly.
If one needs to come here about those feelings, take it to an off game ooc focused board and ask people to help find resources. I believe that people would be happy to help search for some numbers one could call for help.
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Un-asked-for reminder that you can report posts, it is sure a function I am utilizing at this moment in space and time.
