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    • DeviantD
      Deviant @hellfrog
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      @hellfrog

      Yeah, because it’s not pizza. It’s soup in a bread bowl.

      Not everyone likes me, but not everyone matters.

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      • SnacknessS
        Snackness
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        Watching people yeet themselves into the sun. It’s awkward for all of us.

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        • allthecookiesA
          allthecookies
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          oh my

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          • hellfrogH
            hellfrog
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            help game staff will not explain sexism or racism to me this is a real problem i am having

            fr fr
            (she/her)

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              mietze
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              I’m certain that there are staffers out there who are a ton better than me, but honestly in all these years of playing and slightly less in staffing…

              If someone repeatedly can’t come up with nonproblematic concepts that demonstrate a pattern of not showing good judgement as far as they might fit in, no matter how much time I invested in explaining/handholding/helping, ect–it was never ever worth my time. Because the minute they hit the grid, all of the characteristics they’d showed in the CG process (deliberate or otherwise cluelessness, fixation on certain problematic themes, demanding of special attention, ect) only increased once they hit the grid. And back in those days there was kind of an attitude of well once you approved them you shouldn’t take it back.

              So yeah, if someone can’t even get through cg without flailing on channels, aggressively confronting staff on channels, then yeah. I mean even if they’ve made it through CG by some miracle and start after. Just boot. If you are unhappy even before you start, it’s not going to improve if you don’t even have that when you’re still in the honeymoon stage!

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              • tenT
                ten
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                no lie – I was watching that cringefest from afar and judging, hard.

                petty betty

                they | them

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                • JennJ
                  Jenn @ten
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                  what'd i miss

                  We're all mad here.

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                  • Third EyeT
                    Third Eye @mietze
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                    @mietze said in MU Peeves Thread:

                    If someone repeatedly can’t come up with nonproblematic concepts that demonstrate a pattern of not showing good judgement as far as they might fit in, no matter how much time I invested in explaining/handholding/helping, ect–it was never ever worth my time. Because the minute they hit the grid, all of the characteristics they’d showed in the CG process (deliberate or otherwise cluelessness, fixation on certain problematic themes, demanding of special attention, ect) only increased once they hit the grid. And back in those days there was kind of an attitude of well once you approved them you shouldn’t take it back.

                    I don’t put a lot of stock in apps as an indicator of quality, but what I do find they’re good for is flagging issues a player’s going to have with theme or general ‘how they’ll relate to other PCs/staff’ in a way it’s much easier to course-correct pre-approval than post. It also feels a lot more painless to tell someone they aren’t a good fit for a game upfront than to let it become an issue later.

                    I want something else to get me through this
                    Semi-charmed kinda life, baby, baby
                    I want something else, I'm not listening when you say good-bye

                    She/Her or They/Them

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                    • somasatoriS
                      somasatori @mietze
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                      @mietze said in MU Peeves Thread:

                      So yeah, if someone can’t even get through cg without flailing on channels, aggressively confronting staff on channels, then yeah. I mean even if they’ve made it through CG by some miracle and start after. Just boot. If you are unhappy even before you start, it’s not going to improve if you don’t even have that when you’re still in the honeymoon stage!

                      In other words
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                      they/them

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                        Testament
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                        A new peeve of mine is working second shift, having a slow workday, but not so slow as to really allow myself time to find a new place to look at to play.

                        I’m oddly missing roster games now.

                        No thoughts, only app.

                        I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                        • GashlycrumbG
                          Gashlycrumb @Juniper
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                          @Juniper said in MU Peeves Thread:

                          @Val said in MU Peeves Thread:

                          Logging off in the middle of a conversation to be sure your character gets the last word.

                          Don’t do that.

                          Posting a three paragraph rant yelling at someone and then immediately running out of the room. Why do people do this?

                          Ignoring someone’s poses for three or five rounds, then responding to them all in one pose and then running out of the room. The response invariably involves smart-alec snappy-comebacks that make you look cool until/unless you hang around long enough for the person to make a snappy comeback that points out how stupid yours was. That’s why people do it.

                          "This is Liberty Hall; you can spit on the mat and call the cat a bastard!"
                          – A. Bertram Chandler

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                          • CobaltC
                            Cobalt
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                            I fell off the face of planet due to puppy troubles, health troubles, and teenager drama and now I’m scared to go back :x

                            Cobalt@Under the Stars
                            cob.alt@Discord
                            Cobalt#3811@mas.to

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                              dvoraen @Testament
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                              @Testament said in MU Peeves Thread:

                              A new peeve of mine is working second shift, having a slow workday, but not so slow as to really allow myself time to find a new place to look at to play.

                              I’m oddly missing roster games now.

                              No thoughts, only app.

                              You could always restart characters you’ve already app’d. It’d be like a roster character. That you made!

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                              • LiviaL
                                Livia @Cobalt
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                                @Cobalt Come baaaack! 😄

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                                  Testament @dvoraen
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                                  @dvoraen Yeah but that takes effort.

                                  I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                                    dvoraen @Testament
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                                    @Testament said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                    @dvoraen Yeah but that takes effort.

                                    Takes less effort to get into the head of a character you made than one you didn’t, imo.

                                    (I’m totally not trying to convince you to restart your char on Concordia and conquer the grid, since his brother was murdered.)

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                                      Testament @dvoraen
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                                      @dvoraen Oh yeah. I forgot about him. Admittedly I was let down by the fact that one of his PC kids was an OC and it was hard to just ‘write out’ on of said kids because it was an OC and therefore can’t be reapp’d after the player was banned for being creepy.

                                      I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                                      • juniperskyJ
                                        junipersky Administrators @Testament
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                                        @Testament

                                        You should ask staff for permission to rp something that works for you better! I feel like banned = NPCing is reasonable.

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                                        • somasatoriS
                                          somasatori
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                                          I hate my first week of trying to engage people on a new character. It brings me straight back to that feeling like when you switch schools, and on top of that I’ve learned that it takes me more than a handful of poses to find my character’s voice, with the end result that my ancient reptile brain tells me how awful I am while I’m trying to roleplay a social scene.

                                          Edit: Also, I am deeply anxious about asking for RP on a channel. Intellectually I know that if no one responds it’s not a big deal, but ancient reptile brain says that all of them secretly despise me and wish I would go away.

                                          they/them

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                                            dvoraen @somasatori
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                                            @somasatori This is kind of me. I rarely initiate “omg rp?” these days on public channels, because past experience has taught me I have the opposite effect on people. (This means I almost never had any replies, like dead silence. It’s eerie.)

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