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    • RE: Stupid Memes

      Had this linked to me on Discord, made me lol:

      alt text

      posted in No Escape from Reality
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    • RE: Pax Republica - Discussion

      I don’t have a horse in the Star Wars MU* race, but I do have a very vested interest in not hearing after the fact about how underage porn happened on a MU*.

      (And yes, I do consider it EXTREMELY LIKELY TO OCCUR when underage characters and players are permitted on a MU* with an R-rating.)

      You are setting yourself up for potentially serious consequences. So let me make it clear:

      DO NOT ALLOW UNDERAGE ANYTHING

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss

      @HannahBananna said in Silent Heaven: Small-town Horror RPG:

      @Pavel Thankfully if you had any of the four you’d be smart enough not to start shit with someone who’s obviously always been above you. This ain’t my way of asking. My way of asking was going onto the discord server and politely asking, like an ADULT, something you are STILL proving you’re incapable of being. This is my way of continuing to be an adult and taking away the toys of people who want to be spoiled brats. Like you. Daed.

      If this is your way of being an adult, you have a very misguided definition in your mental database.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: People Doing Things

      @Roz said in People Doing Things:

      i don’t know if most arx folks have noticed the number of code contributions @dvoraen has made to arx, but i have

      blush

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof

      @Ashen-Shugar So let’s see if I can explain why I disagree with a metaphor. This is how your point comes across, to me:

      I own a building. A crime happens in my building. I’m culpable for the crime because I own the building.

      So I suddenly am expected to a) track what goes on in the building; b) had any control whatsoever about what happens inside the building.

      That’s ridiculous, and most certainly not how it works in today’s society, otherwise companies and schools would be liable for the mass shootings that happen inside their areas. It’s an absolutely absurd take.

      I reject the idea that I need to tacitly monitor everything that happens on a MU* I run because someone might do something illegal. That’s like saying I should wiretap my neighbors because they talked about where to hide a corpse, because I live in the same apartment complex. Oh no, they did something bad, clearly I need to have been more responsible to make sure it didn’t happen so I could tell the cops, to the point of being unethical and invasive in my methods!

      No.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • Something I Need to Say

      Preface: This is not a request for sympathy, forgiveness, or even understanding, because I have no right to ask for any of that.

      To start off, I’m posting this because my brain will not shut the fuck up about it even over a week later. I’ve tried to distract myself from it, but the issue will not stop harassing me. It keeps resurfacing. I do wonder if it’s a byproduct of being on the autism spectrum and/or ADHD (and the fact I really take rejection hard), but I don’t know. All I know is that I have to get this off my chest.

      I’m not going to answer questions about the details. I’m deliberately leaving out the who and where and focusing solely on the what. Some of you already know about this, because you were involved and/or can guess from my username, which I use in multiple locations (Discord and more), but I don’t want to sweep what happened under the rug and assume everything will be fine. Because it’s not, in the abstract.

      Anyway, to make a long story short, I had my first experience with being disinvited from a game. I still can’t really identify what it was I said or did that led to me being approached and told I should go because of my conduct that made other people uncomfortable. There were no sexual propositions or anything of the sort, but the discussion was that my conduct on channels as a guest and during chargen had been noted, and the sum of it led to me being effectively asked to leave.

      I was absolutely shocked and anxious over it, sitting in my chair reading that, because no one had voiced any explicit concerns to me saying there’s an issue until that moment, but at the end of the day what mattered was that I did something that bothered other people to the point that staff had to get involved and say this isn’t the place for you. My response was “Alright.” and that I’d take my leave, and I logged off right after.

      I can only remember talking on public channels and paging three people, two of which I’ve spoken to multiple times on other games and/or Discord. One of those two explicitly asked me when I was getting my butt approved. I’ve come to the conclusion that matters have silently changed with the second of the two, and as such I needed to keep my distance from them, including Discord. So I chose to silently break contact, left DM groups, and have tried to not interact with them.

      Anyway, I peeked at the game site, got the message my site was blocked from the portal, and wondered why I went there in the first place, even if it was just to hit the logout button. It was a stupid thing to do, but I still did it.

      So yeah. I did something, the aftermath is bothering me still, and the worst part is I still can’t identify to myself what behavior of mine is the problem.

      That’s all.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • dvoraen's disclosures

      I don’t feel like copy-pasting from MSB, so I’m just going to go into recent history as I can remember it, with a few special mentions.

      UPDATED - Feb 11, 2024

      Current

      • Concordia - Alistair (& Ser Silvertail)

      Inactive

      • Luminiferous Aether - Anthony

      Past

      • Various Wheel of Time MU*s - Svoran*
      • The Fifth World - Jor
      • Crossroads - Svoran*, Jaeden
      • Flight of the Golden Crane - Jaram
      • Kushiel’s Debut - Piers
      • Arx 1.0 - Bhandn

      * Everywhere I transplanted Svoran (most of them WoT games), it was for character research. “How does he think and react to X situation?” In my personal writing, Svoran is the one character where I could not get into his headspace without character research. Plus, I could not figure out how grumpy he was on average, and to whom, why the fuss, etc. I think I’ve finally figured him out, but this was a 20+ year endeavor to iron him out into his current form in my writing.

      MU*ing has been a godsend with figuring out character mindsets, to the point I stopped doing character research because my writing felt more mature as far as figuring out how to write people as people, if that makes sense? But for a while, I was playing some characters from my personal fiction of Aldera to try and figure them out. The irony of this is: THEY ALL CHANGED DRASTICALLY DESPITE THE RESEARCH. (Now, they’re nothing like the “researched” versions were.) Go figure.

      posted in Pals and Playlists
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    • RE: Cat Art! I know, I know ...

      @crawfish I think I speak for a lot of people when I say this:

      EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

      I LOVE THEM

      posted in No Escape from Reality
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    • RE: Pern Dragon Colors

      I just want a tl;dr of what dragon colors and styles mean, since I haven’t read any Pern books.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: MU Peeves Thread

      @Pyrephox I would advise you not to force it, as someone who’s been in this position for a number things (although my depression tends to help a bit here). Point being, I was trying to force my enjoyment of games (not just MU*s, any games), and I ended up becoming increasingly dissatisfied. Months passed of this and I eventually got tired of that feeling and took the plunge to step away.

      About two weeks ago I suddenly had the urge to restart one and it’s enjoyable again. Because I’m not forcing myself to sit down and do it; that’s for schoolwork.

      On a MU* note, I’d all but quit from lack of drive. I wasn’t planning to start any new characters or anything, but one day virtually out of nowhere a character concept dropped into my head, latched on like a barnacle, and I find myself excited to take him for a spin when the time comes.

      But again, it wasn’t because “Oh I HAVE to do this”; it’s because I let it come to me. Did I want to play games and other MU*'s while feeling in a slump? Yes. But forcing myself into something to try and enjoy it felt like work, and that’s completely counter to the idea that it’s for fun.

      So yeah. Give yourself permission to take those steps away and if it comes back to you and excites you again, yay!

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    Latest posts made by dvoraen

    • RE: Pets!

      @Wizz Look at that pretty kitty facey whisker facey face. ❤ 😻

      posted in No Escape from Reality
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    • RE: Numetal/Retromux

      @MayorMccheez So if there’s more freight to be unloaded, just how big is the semi hauling it, if you follow?

      I just want to know how many boxes of receipts there are, in other words. (Regardless of whether your 1% doubt of identity turns out to be the case.)

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: AI PBs

      @Pavel said in AI PBs:

      Speaking of litigation, who do I speak to about suing for the whiplash I got as those goalposts fuckin’ rocketed past?

      I just want you to ask ChatGPT and all the other LLMs this exact question, with this exact wording.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: MU Peeves Thread

      @Pavel said in MU Peeves Thread:

      I’ve had to turn the auto-convert feature off in Word for when I do my – (that is two hyphens, often converted to a dash of some kind, be it en or em. I never learned the difference.) because it was getting pulled up by the anti-AI checker on my submitted work and it’s easier to just… not deal with that.

      This is why I have this much >< (it’s zero) faith in anything “AI” at this juncture, including detection methods. If an en-/em-dash user is getting flagged for actually using them correctly, then I don’t know what else to tell you other than look at this GIF to illustrate my point:

      a man is standing in front of a sign that says shamwow

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: MU Peeves Thread

      @Pyrephox said in MU Peeves Thread:

      @ten You can pry my em-dashes from my cold, dead hands. I’ve been (over)using them longer than LLMs have been in existence!

      I’m in this picture; as a semi-colon user, I can empathize.

      (SEE HOW I DID THAT?)

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: Tsar's Playlist

      @tsar I just want you to know how serious I am about catching these 🐌s and returning them home.

      The BEST Snails.png

      posted in Pals and Playlists
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    • RE: Ot The Real, Gorilla Nems Ban Thread

      @Testament But is the D&D related to the setting of Seven Nations?!

      posted in Comments & Feedback
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    • RE: Tsar's Playlist

      @tsar said in Tsar's Playlist:

      @dvoraen It was all leading to this moment

      You must name one Porter. Because snails PORT their shells.

      a man wearing a top hat and sunglasses says my job here is done

      posted in Pals and Playlists
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    • RE: Tsar's Playlist

      I now finally understand what you meant about all the 🐌 s

      posted in Pals and Playlists
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    • RE: PBs

      @Tez Yeah, I feel like we should be crotchety and stuck in our ways (in our rocking chairs on the front porch) about “pb/played by” versus “faceclaim.” >.>

      posted in Game Gab
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