Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss
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@oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
@Pavel said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
I really want to know who she thinks I am… it’s not like the one time I got fired from staff (and not banned, weirdly) is a secret.
She said in her first reply to you, I think. Daed from Haven. IDK anything about him being banned from Haven and I’m not inclined to go find out, but he used to be the one banning her on the regular. Like, when I played from… 2013-2017? She was a weekly occurrence, more or less. Sometimes way more.
They are just a deeply unwell person who goes nuclear at even the mildest hint of perceived negativity.
Oh, so she’s a known quantity? I kind of liked it being a whirlwind out of nowhere.
She sounds like she needs a lot of help.
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@oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
She said in her first reply to you, I think.
Oh, like I did more than skim anything she wrote.
I have no idea who that is, so I am disappointed.
@oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
They are just a deeply unwell person who goes nuclear at even the mildest hint of perceived negativity.
I used to be like that. But now I’m a deeply unwell person who journals.
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@Rinel said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
@oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
@Pavel said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
I really want to know who she thinks I am… it’s not like the one time I got fired from staff (and not banned, weirdly) is a secret.
She said in her first reply to you, I think. Daed from Haven. IDK anything about him being banned from Haven and I’m not inclined to go find out, but he used to be the one banning her on the regular. Like, when I played from… 2013-2017? She was a weekly occurrence, more or less. Sometimes way more.
They are just a deeply unwell person who goes nuclear at even the mildest hint of perceived negativity.
Oh, so she’s a known quantity? I kind of liked it being a whirlwind out of nowhere.
She sounds like she needs a lot of help.
Yeah. She reads like “RG”, or “rage girl”, who’s haunting Haven for quite some time - since the beginning, as far as I can recall. I’m guessing she’s gotten bored with Haven and is trying to find where older Haven players have migrated to (I haven’t checked in a while, but the last time I was paying attention to Haven Tyr was making some supes unpopular decisions). But the vibe I’ve always gotten has been “either a troll, or very unwell”.
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@NotSanni said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
either a troll, or very unwell
Unfortunately, those two things can be true simultaneously.
Obviously, I should have been more sensible when engaging with her last evening.
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damn, hope they get the help they need. Gotta be healthy enough to go fuck themselves.
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Wow.
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Yeah, pretty sure the sequel was trolling, but regardless, it’s not necessary to actually break a written rule to get banned from a game if your level of extra rockets so fast it breaks the sound barrier.
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I’m just bemused at a self identified kind, compassionate queer community member tossing around ‘retard’ as an insult. Man, I hope she was lying. It’s embarrassing to be in the same community as someone like that.
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@TNP I’m not saying there are no queer people who would say, “I’m on the rainbow so you all owe me your support or else you’re bigots.” I’m just saying it makes more sense to me to assume she was lying about her identity in a really lazy attempt to gain a moral high ground.
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@GF said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
a really lazy attempt to gain a moral high ground
Really stupid attempt too, given who she was talking to.
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I reread a couple of times and could never quite figure this out.
Did the “LGBTQ+ community” ever have anything to do with this, or was it just some completely random thing she picked out to add an exciting new dimension to her screaming?
love that perfect frown
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@Vulgar-Boy ACCOUNTABILITY
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@Vulgar-Boy said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
Did the “LGBTQ+ community” ever have anything to do with this, or was it just some completely random thing she picked out to add an exciting new dimension to her screaming?
I think it’s a key part of Silent Heaven’s credo that they’re accepting, don’t appreciate bigotry, etc, etc. The poster was railing against a lack of acceptance for them, because they conflated “we accept the community” with “we will let the community do whatever.”
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@HannahBananna said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
@Pavel
@mietze I wouldn’t bother trying to be rational with 'em. They’ve a history of doing this histrionic rage drama BS, no need to get down to my level.No, I do not. I have a history of being kind to the other players on Silent Haven and even apologizing to both admins and players when any issue or perceived issue did come up. You can even ask Edwin, Liz, Charles, Falke, and several others if they’d believe your bullshit. They know me well enough to know you’re dead wrong. Hell even Jump Scare witnessed me doing exactly as I just said in this post.
In three days you’ve developed a history of ‘even apologizing’?
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@Vulgar-Boy said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
Did the “LGBTQ+ community” ever have anything to do with this, or was it just some completely random thing she picked out to add an exciting new dimension to her screaming?
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I would just like to say I am deeply hurt and offended at being called straight. If anyone needs me I’ll be binging queer cinema and cruising Grindr.
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On behalf of the entire ex-Haven community, I am so sorry.
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@GF said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:
@TNP I’m not saying there are no queer people who would say, “I’m on the rainbow so you all owe me your support or else you’re bigots.” I’m just saying it makes more sense to me to assume she was lying about her identity in a really lazy attempt to gain a moral high ground.
MOD VOICE: Do not claim someone else is lying about their personal identity for ‘points’, ‘moral high ground’ or anything else, or insinuate that they’re not ‘really’ whatever identity they profess. Doesn’t matter if it’s a current poster, banned poster, or J. Rando Person.
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@Pyrephox Understood.
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That was a doozy
