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    • hellfrogH
      hellfrog @howyadoin
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      @howyadoin okay 😞

      fr fr
      (she/her)

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      • catzillaC
        catzilla @howyadoin
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        @howyadoin said in MU Peeves Thread:

        Yeah.

        Let’s not lie OOC in order to convince people to fuck us IC.

        Okay?

        I totally agree! But now am curious what sort of OOC lies this inspired? Maybe not necessarily the situation but like… people saying ‘hey I’m interested in this relationship with our PCs, I promise no drama!’ or…?

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          howyadoin @catzilla
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          @catzilla Blatantly lied OOC about compliance with a game policy others were trying to enforce to convince them it was okay to fuck.

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          • helveticaH
            helvetica @howyadoin
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            @howyadoin said in MU Peeves Thread:

            @catzilla Blatantly lied OOC about compliance with a game policy others were trying to enforce to convince them it was okay to fuck.

            What’s the game’s ts policy? And how are they uh, enforcing compliance?

            Street Cred

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              howyadoin @helvetica
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              @helvetica Kind of beside the point because the gripe is lying OOC to obtain consent where it would not have otherwise been given.

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              • helveticaH
                helvetica @howyadoin
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                @howyadoin Yeah and now it’s coming off as super weird and at least a little bit shady without at least some further context. Best of luck, though.

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                • TezT
                  Tez Administrators
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                  • TezT
                    Tez Administrators
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                    I’m dying out here. What’s the policy?

                    ETA: Okay, okay, okay. A good and wise friend has pointed out to me that perhaps it makes sense to not want to say in all cases. Obviously lying to get TS is really fucking bad tho, okay?

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                      Rathenhope @Tez
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                      @Tez GDPR compliance. TS can only be between EU member states.

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                      • TezT
                        Tez Administrators @Rathenhope
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                        @Rathenhope Wanna break some laws?

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                          Rathenhope @Tez
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                          @Tez it’s okay I’m not in the EU anymore 😞

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                          • helveticaH
                            helvetica @howyadoin
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                            @howyadoin You right. My bad. Maintain your privacy on this one, peace. The compliance stuff set off my alarm bells.

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                            • PavelP
                              Pavel @Rathenhope
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                              @Rathenhope said in MU Peeves Thread:

                              @Tez GDPR compliance. TS can only be between EU member states.

                              Outside of the EU it’s just sparkling cybersex.

                              He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                              BE AN ADULT

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                              • KestrelK
                                Kestrel
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                                To be honest I feel like TS is probably the #1 thing MU*ers lie OOCly to get, I don’t know why this peeve would strain credulity.

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                                • helveticaH
                                  helvetica @Kestrel
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                                  @Kestrel lol I assure you, credulity remains unstrained indubitably. The second response just had the whiff of there being some kind of new and interesting sex rule™ that was being broken ??? instead of like… a normal ass rule like not creeping on someone with an undisclosed alt. That’s all.

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                                  • PavelP
                                    Pavel @helvetica
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                                    @helvetica Aye, my read of it was similar and so was my reaction. It was less “I don’t believe you” and more “… more details please, spill all of the tea.”

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                                      howyadoin
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                                      Alright alright alright.

                                      I just didn’t want this to turn into a discussion about policy when it’s not a matter of the policy involved but of obtaining consent under false pretenses.

                                      There is a prohibition on relationship roleplay with characters that have been in the game for less than two weeks. The rule applies even to returning players playing a new character.

                                      “Pat” violated this policy multiple times. Fine. But in at least two of those times, “Pat” also provably lied about how long their character had been in game (when directly asked by the other players involved) in order to obtain their consent. In both, “Pat” significantly exaggerated their character’s time in the game.

                                      “Pat” knew the rule. A character’s creation date as well as their number of days in the game are spelled out on their sheet, which “Pat” knows. It wasn’t a matter of forgetfulness or plain uncertainty.

                                      “Pat” was caught and removed from the game.

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                                      • TezT
                                        Tez Administrators @howyadoin
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                                        @howyadoin said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                        Alright alright alright.

                                        I just didn’t want this to turn into a discussion about policy when it’s not a matter of the policy involved but of obtaining consent under false pretenses.

                                        You’re right. That sucks.

                                        I just had the same reaction as @helvetica and was leaning back in my chair thinking about the the wild world of policies. Thinking about comic games making unfortunate rules about character gender and sexuality. IDK.

                                        Our hobby sure is a place sometimes.

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                                        • PavelP
                                          Pavel
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                                          That’s just such a dumb lie, too.

                                          Obviously lying to get TS (or anything, but TS is particularly violating) is bad, but like… just wait two weeks my dude, it’s not hard.

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                                          • Third EyeT
                                            Third Eye
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                                            Yeah, like, of all the assumptions I made when this peeve was posted, ‘couldn’t wait 14 days for TS’ wasn’t on the Bingo card.

                                            There are so many horny mofos out there who aren’t on games for any other reason, I get that.

                                            I’m somewhat baffled they don’t just go to sex games or Gdoc porn with a friend but…idk I am not an expert in these things.

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