MU Peeves Thread
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Growing up on this hobby has unironically given me everything from literal trauma I’ve been in therapy for, written skills that have served me exceptionally well professionally/academically, and inadvertently introduced me to the love of my life. I get it, @RightMeow. I also feel that mix of nostalgia/craving and fear/disgust/anxiety for the rollercoaster of very good times and very bad times I’ve had with it.
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@RightMeow Would starting your own game be the equivalent of having a baby to save the toxic relationship?
Because I’ve considered it rather seriously for more than a few moments of late.
He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
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@Pavel said in MU Peeves Thread:
@RightMeow Would starting your own game be the equivalent of having a baby to save the toxic relationship?
Because I’ve considered it rather seriously for more than a few moments of late.
More like trying to take the kids (players) in the messy divorce.
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@Pavel said in MU Peeves Thread:
@RightMeow Would starting your own game be the equivalent of having a baby to save the toxic relationship?
Because I’ve considered it rather seriously for more than a few moments of late.
what kind
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on rp being full of really good and really bad times, i’m waiting for the day i’m a calm enough person that the hobby i love feels like a completely healthy indulgence. I get so much out of it, there’s genuinely nothing to replace it, but it can also be so grating on my emotional well-being. I tend to feel pretty alone in this, or like I shouldn’t talk about it because nobody else feels things intensely like i do surely. lol anyway, i just thought about that reading some above comments.
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@Artemis I think you’re in good company, even if that’s not something people like to talk about.
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@Artemis I think lots of people want to talk about that. The community-entity makes it rough.
Like, eh. Sometimes I read Elizabeth George mysteries. I adore Barbara Havers and actively dislike(d) Inspector Linley. I enjoyed disliking him and used to want bad things to happen to him. When the worst thing ever happened to him, I felt guilty about it, and I have a new set of feelings about Linley.
If something like that happened on a MU, I’d have to be damned careful who I talked to about it. I’d fear that Linley’s player and/or friends thereof would equate me disliking Linley in the first place to me saying that Linley’s a bad character, and the player not just a bad player but a bad person.
And if it was public, people with no connection to that story at all would pop up to tell me that my level of emotional investment in the game is unhealthy, and that I should quit. This feels bad.
I say that games-of-emotional-regulation are part of why RPGs and fiction in general exist, and we should support the feels a lot more.
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Yeah.
Let’s not lie OOC in order to convince people to fuck us IC.
Okay?
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@howyadoin okay
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@howyadoin said in MU Peeves Thread:
Yeah.
Let’s not lie OOC in order to convince people to fuck us IC.
Okay?
I totally agree! But now am curious what sort of OOC lies this inspired? Maybe not necessarily the situation but like… people saying ‘hey I’m interested in this relationship with our PCs, I promise no drama!’ or…?
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@catzilla There is a relationship policy they blatantly OOC lied about to players they were IC pursuing sexually when the other players straight up asked to make sure it was okay before going along with it IC.
