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    • RozR
      Roz @Faraday
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      @Faraday said in MU Peeves Thread:

      @Roz said in MU Peeves Thread:

      but the ratios can vary widely based on that particular game’s culture.

      We just see it differently is all.

      I think the ratios vary wildly based on the individual preferences of the individual players.

      The preferences of the individual players dictates what games they stick around. Like you said earlier, if a game most largely tends to have one type of scene pacing, those who prefer others will tend to move on, as it’s not the game for them. The players who stick around on a game define the game’s culture with their preferences.

      So it can behoove a game runner to cultivate the overall culture they want to encourage in their game.

      she/her | playlist

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      • FaradayF
        Faraday @Roz
        last edited by Faraday

        @Roz said in MU Peeves Thread:

        So it can behoove a game runner to cultivate the overall culture they want to encourage in their game.

        I think we’re mostly on the same page and just splitting hairs over wording.

        If a game is mostly run in EST and you’re in Euro time, it’s going to be hard for you to find RP and that’s probably not the right game for you. I personally don’t consider that the “culture” of the game. Mostly because it could change on a dime if just a couple of Euro players turn up and suddenly it’s easier to find RP.

        That said, I understand your point, and apart from quibbles over terminology I largely agree.

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        • RozR
          Roz @Faraday
          last edited by

          @Faraday said in MU Peeves Thread:

          @Roz said in MU Peeves Thread:

          So it can behoove a game runner to cultivate the overall culture they want to encourage in their game.

          I think we’re mostly on the same page and just splitting hairs over wording.

          If a game is mostly run in EST and you’re in Euro time, it’s going to be hard for you to find RP and that’s probably not the right game for you. I personally don’t consider that the “culture” of the game. Mostly because it could change on a dime if just a couple of Euro players turn up and suddenly it’s easier to find RP.

          That said, I understand your point, and apart from quibbles over terminology I largely agree.

          Wouldn’t be a forum conversation without quibbling over semantics!

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          • PavelP
            Pavel @Roz
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            @Roz said in MU Peeves Thread:

            @Faraday said in MU Peeves Thread:

            @Roz said in MU Peeves Thread:

            So it can behoove a game runner to cultivate the overall culture they want to encourage in their game.

            I think we’re mostly on the same page and just splitting hairs over wording.

            If a game is mostly run in EST and you’re in Euro time, it’s going to be hard for you to find RP and that’s probably not the right game for you. I personally don’t consider that the “culture” of the game. Mostly because it could change on a dime if just a couple of Euro players turn up and suddenly it’s easier to find RP.

            That said, I understand your point, and apart from quibbles over terminology I largely agree.

            Wouldn’t be a forum conversation without quibbling over semantics!

            You rang?

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            • kalakhK
              kalakh
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              My brain won’t shut the fuck up and let me sleep, but it’s also so fried that I’m not using any of that stolen sleep time to do anything I actually want to do. A month where I’m losing a full night every three days-ish is not cool and I would like to speak to the manager and get a refund on this brain, it’s clearly defective.

              Anyhow, it gets in the way of RP related things and I don’t like it. 😠

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              • kalakhK
                kalakh @kalakh
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                @kalakh Also, me on any building request:

                alt text

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                • AshkuriA
                  Ashkuri
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                  Player X decided my character looks like a certain porn star and decided to bring that to my friend, Player A. “This porn star looks like (me) amirite haha”

                  Is it wildly inappropriate for X to be doing that to me/to Player A, or am I being over sensitive?

                  I don’t want to be discussed in a porn context, what the fuck.

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                  • SnacknessS
                    Snackness @Ashkuri
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                    @imstillhere No that’s gross

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                    • tsarT
                      tsar @Ashkuri
                      last edited by

                      @imstillhere said in MU Peeves Thread:

                      Player X decided my character looks like a certain porn star and decided to bring that to my friend, Player A. “This porn star looks like (me) amirite haha”

                      Is it wildly inappropriate for X to be doing that to me/to Player A, or am I being over sensitive?

                      I don’t want to be discussed in a porn context, what the fuck.

                      WHAT

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                      • AshkuriA
                        Ashkuri @tsar
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                        @tsar Literally player X was like “This is him right hahaha”

                        NO

                        NO IT IS NOT???

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                        • TributaryT
                          Tributary @Ashkuri
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                          @imstillhere said in MU Peeves Thread:

                          Player X decided my character looks like a certain porn star and decided to bring that to my friend, Player A. “This porn star looks like (me) amirite haha”

                          Is it wildly inappropriate for X to be doing that to me/to Player A, or am I being over sensitive?

                          I don’t want to be discussed in a porn context, what the fuck.

                          If you weren’t using a porn star as a played-by, then no. No, not appropriate.

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                          • tsarT
                            tsar @Ashkuri
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                            @imstillhere said in MU Peeves Thread:

                            @tsar Literally player X was like “This is him right hahaha”

                            NO

                            NO IT IS NOT???

                            oh my god

                            no

                            do not pass go

                            do not collect $200

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                            • Third EyeT
                              Third Eye @Ashkuri
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                              @imstillhere said in MU Peeves Thread:

                              @tsar Literally player X was like “This is him right hahaha”

                              Why are people this? Can they not be people?

                              (this is super weird)

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                              Semi-charmed kinda life, baby, baby
                              I want something else, I'm not listening when you say good-bye

                              She/Her or They/Them

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                              • BloodAngelB
                                BloodAngel @Ashkuri
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                                @imstillhere Fuck that person

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                                • T
                                  Testament @Tributary
                                  last edited by Testament

                                  @Tributary said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                  @imstillhere said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                  Player X decided my character looks like a certain porn star and decided to bring that to my friend, Player A. “This porn star looks like (me) amirite haha”

                                  Is it wildly inappropriate for X to be doing that to me/to Player A, or am I being over sensitive?

                                  I don’t want to be discussed in a porn context, what the fuck.

                                  If you weren’t using a porn star as a played-by, then no. No, not appropriate.

                                  Next game I’m using Johnny Sins as a PB.

                                  And far more seriously. That’s in terrible taste @imstillhere which really sucks. And kind of, no is really weird.

                                  I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                                  • M
                                    mietze
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                                    Maybe I’m just getting old and grumpy but that is inappropriate yes, but imo it is also weird that was shared with you without a “and then I told them I thought that was gross and inappropriate to say out of the blue.” And preferably a “I also reported it.”

                                    This is mostly grumpiness though because I also don’t think anyone should be shamed for not reporting really. Its just that ime tale bearers who don’t also speak up tend to get something out of it thats no good or may be running a game of their own.

                                    Maybe its like if the effort is made to tell the target of that weirdness hopefully the targeted was also told dude thats not cool. But hopefully they did! Its a way that can sometimes get creepers to leave you alone when you turn around and critique their attempt to mock/critique someone else to you.

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                                    • CobaltC
                                      Cobalt @mietze
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                                      @mietze I’m with you, here. If someone came to me about one of my friend’s character’s looking like a porn star I would probably like ‘yo that’s gross stop it or I’ll report you to staff’.

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                                        mietze @Cobalt
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                                        @Cobalt and also “why the fuck are you telling ME this?” too!!!

                                        But again, i’m deep in grumpyland tonight. I think a soft majority of times I’ve ever had anyone out of the blue say “so and so is saying this weird thing about you.” and leave it at that–they were full of shit and trying to play people off each other, telling each of them the other was saying crazy things about the other one.

                                        But most of the time it’s probably not like that.

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                                        • kalakhK
                                          kalakh
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                                          • Vulgar BoyV
                                            Vulgar Boy
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                                            When somewhere between working up the nerve to say “can you take one more?” and hitting enter the scene goes private.

                                            It’s cool. I’ll try again next month. 😩

                                            love that perfect frown

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