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MU Peeves Thread
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@tsar You know that story’s a lie, right?
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@Snackness said in MU Peeves Thread:
@tsar You know that story’s a lie, right?
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No! It’s a story about not lying, it’s not allowed to be a lie!!
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This hasn’t even happened to me in at least a year, probably more, yet when I think about it happening it still makes me unreasonably annoyed.
When you come into a scene that’s already going on and don’t wait for anyone to pose any kind of set, you just pose in lalala whatever with no regard for anything you might be walking into. One day that’s going to happen to me, and I’m going to pose back that the entire bar is flooded yet somehow the barstool you just sat on is also on fire. Because HOW HARD IS IT TO WAIT FOR A TINY FUCKING SETPOSE FOR GOD’S SAKE TURNS OUT THINGS ARE ALREADY HAPPENING IN HERE THAT AREN’T YOU.
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@ham I’d ask if the game has actions (or whatever the equivalent is - setting a message that describes what your character is doing for new people walk in)
But what am I kidding? People don’t update those either, lol.
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@Juniper And it’s a pain to be like, “oh, I’d better change my message from ‘is sitting at the bar’ to ‘is sitting at the bar but now the bartool is on fire ahhhh’ now”
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The notion that a romantic partner to my character should be the person I spend the most time RPing with - 70% of it, apparently.
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@spiriferida said in MU Peeves Thread:
The notion that a romantic partner to my character should be the person I spend the most time RPing with - 70% of it, apparently.
unsurprisingly my character is no longer in a relationshipWhat a nice specific number. Did they break down what you’re allowed to do with the other 30% of your time?!
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@tsar we didn’t get to that point in the discussion, but they were kind enough to clarify that they only meant my RP time, not my time in general.
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Please, it’s ok if you have to go AFK, but if it’s going to be like, an hour… let me know before hand if you could? That’d be swell.
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It’s like being on a PDD. You do your community service hours and report every second Monday to the DA’s office to update them.
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@spiriferida one thing I don’t understand about that is – what do you rp about? If you’re always together?
as previously stated, good day.
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lol lmao
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@Herja the only man I’ll ever love
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@farfalla my favorite long term romantic RP happened in a vacuum, it was very episodic with lots of emotional crisis and character flaws and injected drama from background characters and obstacles.
But it was never ‘just with them’, we had other RP and stories we told with other people.
And then it evolved into adventures and other stories and worlds and jumping into online places with other people and honestly I think I accrued many friends from that kind of start.
My less favorites were from possessive partners that were like the original peeve. I don’t stick around for those types longer than a single scene, long enough for me to go ‘oh no not another one’.
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@spiriferida said in MU Peeves Thread:
@tsar we didn’t get to that point in the discussion, but they were kind enough to clarify that they only meant my RP time, not my time in general.
Oh wow, that’s so generous of them.
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@spiriferida said in MU Peeves Thread:
The notion that a romantic partner to my character should be the person I spend the most time RPing with - 70% of it, apparently.
unsurprisingly my character is no longer in a relationshipHonestly, this seems to be a common expectation. Not that exact number, obviously, but the idea that IC significant-others should be the priority in RP.
I don’t like RPing with the same person over and over and over, I like to share the love as it were. So if I’ve already RP’d with someone that week (or so) then I don’t really like RPing with them again until I’ve had some scenes with others.
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My RP relationship peeve stems off this topic. While I surely cannot devote all my time to an IC relationship (definitely not 70%), I’ve recently been triggered by my need for monogamy and my settling for don’t ask don’t tell. My character mentioned this was such a great aspect of their relationship because she didn’t want to know of the other people, if there were other people, and the person my character was with literally replied with something like “you should meet them…” Only to then find out someone who triggered me on game earlier was still in the partner’s rotation of lovers.
I basically told the player I couldn’t do this even if I enjoyed the story, even if I still thought they were very nice and had fun while it lasted. I was just so triggered. Now I’m hesitant to involve any character that deeply because I will feel guilty for not being on enough to satisfy the IC relationship needs of the other player. I know this sounds super messed up and it’s a very low self-esteem thing. It’s just a bad trigger. I want to be ‘cool’ and all monogamy is for the birds, but I would be lying to myself and the other person.
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@Birdie Something you said here kind of triggered me in a way.
It’s ok to be monogamous. It doesn’t have to have anything to do with self-esteem. Some people are just not built for polygamy and that is perfectly ok. Don’t feel like you’ve done /anything/ wrong by not wanting to be in a polygamous relationship.
Don’t ask, don’t tell, I don’t know if I could even go that far with some characters, and I know I couldn’t RL so please, don’t feel like you’ve done anything wrong.
You set up a line, a boundary, and /they/ pushed it, broke it, and hop scotched right across it. That is not your fault, they disrespected your boundaries and your choices.
Very not cool of them.
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At this point, I personally am so off the mere IDEA of IC/RP relationships that I can’t see ever having anything but off-screen significant others.
That’s something that can/will change if I feel the right ‘click’ between my PC and another, but honestly, at this point? I kind of hope that never happens.
It’s nice not to feel like I ‘owe’ any one person or story anything whenever I login, that I can just glance at WHO, glance at messages/messengers, browse boards and choose something that suits my mood at the moment and go for it without worrying about the consequences of someone else’s feelings.
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Years and years and years ago I got into an IC relationship with someone and I made it very clear that I was not interested in any jealousy RP or cheating storylines or anything like that. They swore up and down OOCly and ICly that the IC relationship was The One and The Best Love Story Ever Told etc, etc. and it was really, really fun.
And then one day in my standard bar scene RP I was confronted by The Other Woman. Turned out there were several other people the player had been winding up and he had been looking forward to the big blowout fight over his PC. I noped out of there instantly.
Since then I really tend to just do IC relationships with people I know and trust OOCly.
