Haven: The Safe Haven
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You know what the most immature thing in the world to do is in any given situation? Not even hinting at somebody that anything they’re doing or have done is any kind of a problem at all, and then suddenly reacting as if they’ve committed some unforgivable crime that they’ve been warned about or even talked to about at all. While you know damned good and well none of that is true except for you saw a problem, didn’t even TRY to resolve it, and expected banning them to make it go away. That just draws attention to you as a horrible person and the situation as one to warn everybody else away from. So you know what let me blast what happened at you. I was on Silent Haven for a grand total of three days, three days, I repeat again, three days. Had one or two questions about coding and why certain things on there are the way they are, got my answers, got help even finding out what I missed in a help file, so fine, cool, right? Wrong. Previous day, much lesser issue, but it impacted a person other than me too so it goes second. Someone wrote an emote that in a speed-read, which admittedly with slight dyslexia I know I shouldn’t do, looked like their character was authoring my character’s actions on the spot and rewriting a part of my emote. Didn’t want to rp with them, wanted to log out and cry instead, Admin comes in, head one of the discord server in fact, far as I know. Lets me know they probably didn’t mean it, that calms me down, asks me to see my logs, helps me fix the issue, cool right? Maybe, even asked them to pass on my apology to the other player so we could get to having fun and going on our merry way, even had my character apologize to theirs ic for how on a character side it was handled, cool issue solved, right? Right. Cool, right? Wrong. Day after ooc part and same day as the ic part got resolved, Imm named Clyde interrupts an all ic scenario in the middle of my character doing their ic job in their ic territory summons my character out of the scene, bans my whole ip, character and all, no way back in, doubt I could even make a new character if I want to, don’t know, never tried an alt, never wanted to. Go onto the discord server ask them, ask them, I repeast ASK them, what I even did, at all. NO answer, no reply instant “I’mma be a lil five year old and not an adult” ban from the server. So you know what no, guys I URGE you I BEG you. DITCH Silent Heaven, it’s no good for anyone who wants a real RP experience, with real people who keep it real and handle our stuff like ADULTS. By talking it out and coming to mutual understandings, agreements, and most of all? NO drama outside of character happens, I been there for a week, none. Never had an issue with anyone there, not even a minor misunderstanding far as I know. It’s got about 15 players at peak time right now so if you want to contribute to a game run by decent adults, hop over to Havenrpg.net on port 3000 where everyone treats you right, but your characters oh so wrong. Best on the net at horror, I guarantee you that. Best players I’ve seen too, we’d love to have you. Liz, Charles, Edwin, Lebolia, Jesse, Summer, Falke, Mandy, Kingsley, I’m inviting you guys and gals personally, by name, I like how you write, I like how you do. Ditch Silent Heaven and come to Haven, a safe haven of adults who want treat you right.
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@HannahBananna said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:
Haven, a safe haven of adults who want treat you right
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@Pavel I mean your reaction just shows you’ve been banned from there in the past for being a problem so you? Stay away and let the adults talk, you’re one of the children.
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@HannahBananna Oh, lord no. I’ve only had the privilege of watching that cesspit from the outside.
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@Pavel If that’s your opinion of anything you’ve “seen” of Haven, you’ve never been there, and never even seen it. I said what I came to say, you’re either on board with some truth, knowledge, wisdom, and love in you, or you’re not worth my time.
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@Tez could you move these last few posts to somewhere more appropriate, please?
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@HannahBananna That’s not what we do here. Also this is for RL, non-MU venting, so you weren’t even using the thread properly.
ETA: Also I know who you are now, and I can do this all day.
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@Pavel Thankfully you just proved you’re still a troll and still can’t read. What is being a player on a MU? A real life event. What is being banned from one because you’re an adult around people who are supposed to be adults but acting like children? A real life struggle. THINK before you speak and some decade you might begin to be right. I’ve used the thread properly, stop abusing it and accusing me of doing it. Clearly you are a troll, and one who expects me to believe you can hack my firewall and somehow tell me my name, town, job, etc. The last stand of a desperate troll who clearly knows nothing, or they’d have doxxed me by now.
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@HannahBananna you’re posting in an inappropriate part of the forum. Going on to a rl focused conversation thread to air your mush angst is not great.
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Juh-yeez-us.
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T Tez moved this topic from No Escape from Reality on
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These posts had nothing to do with RL so I have moved them into a brand new haven thread. Given your tone, the thread clearly belongs in Rough and Rowdy.
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I have to say the meltdown really delivered, but my favorite part was the Haven invite so I am delighted to see this branched off with this title.
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If you managed this mess in three days (three days, three days, three days), I’m with staff on the ban. You sound like a nightmare.
You had a meltdown over what looked like a player possibly overstepping one time in a pose that required staff involvement. If that’s enough to send you into a spiral and require outside help to resolve, communal writing is going to be a tough place for you to thrive.
Also, please use paragraph breaks.
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when I finished reading this thread:
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@HannahBananna said in Haven: The Safe Haven:
What is being banned from one because you’re an adult around people who are supposed to be adults but acting like children? A real life struggle.
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I gotta say, I don’t know why you were banned from Concordia, buddy, but at the very least you didn’t react like this.
Rofl.
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