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    • JumpscareJ
      Jumpscare
      last edited by

      @KarmaBum

      That’s perfectly understandable! And thanks for expounding, it really helps me to understand where Silent Heaven stands in the MU ecosystem, haha.

      Here are some responses to your points. Don’t worry, I’m not trying to convince you to play. I’m just providing clarifications.

      1- I understand the frustration with mobile closing the connection the instant you tab out. I’ve recently learned about split screen being a feature for Android phones to help with web connections. It’s still not ideal, but maybe someone reading this doesn’t know about split screen and could benefit from it. (Tap the button that lets you switch apps, then tap the icon at the top, and choose “Split Screen.”)

      2- The Discord server is absolutely not necessary. It’s just for OOC chatter. I’ve seen a number of issues for when public OOC is on the same medium as IC, involving people blurring the lines between the two. And for a game like Silent Heaven that could carry higher bleed than usual, I felt it prudent to separate the two. Everything else, such as event scheduling and notifications about OOC updates, are available in-game.

      3- I worked hard on making an intro sequence that sets the tone while teaching the most necessary commands, so there are no worries there, haha. The first 30 minutes of any new player’s experience are the most important minutes, because those are when they’re most likely to bail if they can’t figure something out.

      4- I fully understand that the “crunchiness” of the game mechanics is a dealbreaker. I did my best to make it support RP, not supplant it. For example, the automated NPC responses are to help when PCs or Storytellers aren’t available, with teaching commands, providing basic setting information, and suggesting safe places to explore. While it helps with some of the cognitive offload of initiating new players into a setting, as well as standardizing rules around certain aspects of the game, it is ultimately gamier, and I accept that that reduces freedom.

      Thank you again for responding!

      Game-runner of Silent Heaven, a small-town horror MU.
      https://silentheaven.org

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      • GashlycrumbG
        Gashlycrumb @Yam
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        @Yam said in MU Peeves Thread:

        There’s also the whole concept of reputation in our very tiny community. If you have a reputation of being someone difficult to deal with

        That is so.

        Nevertheless, no.

        I do not believe that every time, (or almost every time, or even a majority of the time) a player finds staff chronically unresponsive it’s because the staffer is justifiably annoyed with the player, or the player has a bad reputation.

        It’s pretty demoralising and anxiety-provoking to tell people that unresponsive staff probably dislike them personally for probably good reasons. And it doesn’t go well with being compassionate, patient, and willing to extend trust to staff.

        Seems pretty off when paired with concern over game-runners feeling discouraged because somebody admits that players can often get a pretty good idea of how active they are and where.

        What @xCroaker said just exactly except I suck at video games and don’t play them.

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        • MisterBoringM
          MisterBoring @Gashlycrumb
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          @Gashlycrumb said in MU Peeves Thread:

          I do not believe that every time, (or almost every time, or even a majority of the time) a player finds staff chronically unresponsive it’s because the staffer is justifiably annoyed with the player, or the player has a bad reputation.

          I think our hobby is getting small enough that it’s getting more and more common.

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          • PavelP
            Pavel @MisterBoring
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            @MisterBoring said in MU Peeves Thread:

            @Gashlycrumb said in MU Peeves Thread:

            I do not believe that every time, (or almost every time, or even a majority of the time) a player finds staff chronically unresponsive it’s because the staffer is justifiably annoyed with the player, or the player has a bad reputation.

            I think our hobby is getting small enough that it’s getting more and more common.

            Then people in authority need to grow up and communicate, or fuck off.

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            • MisterBoringM
              MisterBoring @Pavel
              last edited by MisterBoring

              @Pavel said in MU Peeves Thread:

              Then people in authority need to grow up and communicate, or fuck off.

              Let me fix that for you:

              Then people in authority need to grow up and communicate, or fuck off.

              I’ve seen plenty of examples of people who have developed a bad reputation in our hobby that have been told they have a bad reputation, with receipts, and they just dismiss any argument in that regard. Sure, there are plenty of staffers who are non-confrontational, so they just ignore the people that have a bad rep, which is a problem in its own right, but largely it feels, to me at least, that the people with the bad reputation are just as guilty of bad communication skills as the staff.

              I guess after watching other staffers on other games attempt to communicate and get shut down, staff on the games these people are currently on give up on attempting to talk it out. Communication is a two way street, and what it seems like we have is problem staffers who aren’t willing to talk it out, and problem players who aren’t willing to accept constructive feedback.

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              • PavelP
                Pavel @MisterBoring
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                @MisterBoring In general? I absolutely agree.

                @MisterBoring said in MU Peeves Thread:

                Sure, there are plenty of staffers who are non-confrontational, so they just ignore the people that have a bad rep, which is a problem in its own right

                But this is the point we’re talking about.

                If staff have a problem with me or concerns about my reputation, and their reaction is to do nothing rather than pass me on to someone else or get rid of me entirely, just… ignore me? That’s 100% a them issue. If staff don’t want me there, they need to say so. There’s nothing to “talk out”; there’s a message that needs to be communicated that isn’t. It’s that simple.

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                • J
                  Juniper
                  last edited by Juniper

                  All of this hinges on whether the person actually is guilty of poor behaviour or not.

                  Without that crucial context, all this reads as a bunch of people vagueposting past each other and probably not even imagining the same people as they do so.

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                  • MisterBoringM
                    MisterBoring @Juniper
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                    @Juniper said in MU Peeves Thread:

                    Without that crucial context, all this reads as a bunch of people vagueposting past each other and probably not even imagining the same people as they do so.

                    I don’t think we’re actually talking about specific cases. Just the general “Staff that ignore problem players is bad” + “Players that refuse to believe they’re an issue when they really are is bad” concepts.

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                    • PavelP
                      Pavel @MisterBoring
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                      @MisterBoring Don’t forget the age-old “staff being held to a higher standard of conduct” argument, too. We’ll do all the classics while we’re here; we’re about due.

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                      • hellfrogH
                        hellfrog @MisterBoring
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                        @MisterBoring it’s always about specific incidents. People just don’t own up to them because they don’t want the scrutiny - for a variety of reasons, I’m sure.

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                        • PavelP
                          Pavel @hellfrog
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                          @hellfrog said in MU Peeves Thread:

                          @MisterBoring it’s always about specific incidents. People just don’t own up to them because they don’t want the scrutiny - for a variety of reasons, I’m sure.

                          The conversation started about a specific incident, sure. But we do veer into talking about vague generalities pretty quick around here. Informed by years of actual situations, sure, but that’s literally the same as every other conversation.

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