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    Roadspike

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    • RE: Star Wars Age of Alliances: Hadrix and Cujo

      @eddie I was going to go off on a bunch of your earlier points, but several others already got there with very similar things to what I was going to say. Plus… Woah… I just got to this post:

      @eddie said in Star Wars Age of Alliances: Hadrix and Cujo:

      Truth of the matter is…

      And I’m pretty sure that your own story tells us everything we need to know about you. You “invested” time, effort, and in-game currency into something and didn’t get the attention of a player you were interested in, the attention that you felt was your due.

      You realize that putting in time, effort, and money into another person without a business deal involved is called “being a friend,” right? And that you aren’t owed anything for it? Particularly not anything of a sexual nature? There is no ROI on being a friend to someone, you do what you do because they’re your friend, not because you’re going to get something out of it.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof

      @Apos Agreed. Any time that someone asks me to define a term that should be common knowledge, I assume that they are just looking for clearly delineated rules that they can push the envelope on and then claim that they’re not breaking the actual rules.

      Everyone should know what “creepy” means, and if they can’t avoid it, then they can’t play on any game I run.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: Why is Pack closing?

      Like a few of the previous posters, I couldn’t finish reading the log. It was disgusting. The use of the Luck point to gaslight a character “because it’s funny” was particularly heinous.

      Apart from and beyond the horrific content, I also found the future-imperfect tense (or whatever ‘will’ and ‘would’ and the like are) posing grating.

      Sorry, @Cobalt, that you had to deal with that, but also thank you for dealing with it so that it didn’t continue (even if it led to you closing your game down).

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: Good things in Mushing

      When you’ve got your brain-weasels going full-bore, and then someone reaches out about RP, and those nasty scratchy bitey things quiet down for a little bit.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: Star Wars Age of Alliances: Hadrix and Cujo

      @Pavel I get that you’re trying to take the most generous interpretation, and I was too – until I got to the talk about ROI. I completely understand being disappointed that a storyline didn’t work out how I wanted it to, how I planned for it to. I get that, it’s happened to me, and it’s sucked.

      But, unless there was some specific agreement, no one should be talking about return on investment in interpersonal relations unless it’s some version of Prue Leith’s “It’s not worth the calories” where you’re deciding that the other person isn’t worth your time and so you’re disengaging yourself.

      To expect a particular return on your investment from the other person, particularly where romantic RP/TS is involved… that’s way too close to “I bought her dinner and drinks, I deserve sex” for my comfort.

      As for the other situation that @eddie mentioned – I really feel for them about that one. That sounds like an uncomfortable situation, and a boundary that they set properly and which was then crossed by another player. That’s not cool at all.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof

      @Pyrephox said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

      There are patterns of abuse that can really on be seen AS A PATTERN, because each individual incident is small and easily dismissed.

      This is why reporting even just “a creepy feeling” is so important. More than once, I have gotten reports from multiple players (and noticed myself) that a player was giving off a creepy vibe, testing those boundaries with people. When confronted, the creep revealed themselves via their responses and were removed – after they were removed, several additional people came forward to say that they had been targeted.

      If you are being victimized by someone, chances are that you are not alone in this. If I (as Staff) get one report of someone being generally creepy, I’ll watch them more closely, but if I get four reports from people in three different playgroups? Yeah, that person’s probably gone, even if each of the reports is just “felt like they were pushing boundaries.” Unless it’s obvious, I’ll talk with the prospective creep, but it’s definitely going to be easier a) to be direct with them about the problem, and b) to obfuscate those reporting the problem, if I have multiple reports.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • Long and Winding Road(spike)

      I was Seraphim73 over on MSB, but I decided to just go with my usual Internet persona over here.

      Past Characters:
      The Weave:
      <character names not remembered>

      A Moment in Tyme (over 15 years, so yeah, there are a lot of characters there):
      Angron Kirthak, Child of the Light
      Njal, Queen’s Guardman/Magistrate
      Arbaal, noble’s guard
      Harkan Kirthak, Child of the Light, later Queen’s Guard
      Creon, Child of the Light
      Agammon, Child of the Light
      Mason, Warder Trainee
      Daiyen, Aiel Spear
      Keldane, Child of the Light
      Termiane Koronel, Seanchan infiltrator
      Gerrit Ajara, weapons trainer
      Volkare Previn, Asha’man
      Brienne, Aes Sedai
      Liahm, Asha’man
      Parol, Weaponmastery and War Staffer

      Dragon’s Fang
      Harkan Kirthak, Child of the Light
      Termiane Koronel, Seanchan-turned-Rebel Warder

      Cuendillar
      Termiane Koronel, Mercenary Blademaster
      Sang, Warder Trainee
      Raizo, Darkfriend Warder

      Knights of the Old Republic
      Volkare Previn, Sith Trooper
      Rha Dun, Jedi Knight
      Kieran “Key” Fel, Republic pilot
      Salm, Feeorin mercenary
      Shivas Anin, Jedi Knight
      Kharss, Chistori mercenary
      Bantha, Sith and War Staffer

      Vampire Masquerade
      Andrei, Russian Brujah

      One of the Battlestar Games (Cerberus?)
      Justinian, Tactical Officer

      Dark Times
      Victor Slade, Stormtrooper officer
      Brodie Jaimes, Wroonian Mercenary
      Sigil(?), Staffer

      Chicago MUSH
      Franklin, beat cop

      Steel and Stone
      Kamron Mallister, knight
      Sterling, common knight
      Darek Boldt, squire
      Tyroan Nayland, steward

      Game of Kings
      Darrin Taniford (before the insanity)
      Theme/Combat Staffer before opening

      The Fifth World
      Nikomachos Sauveur of Cindravale, jouster and knight
      Drake Danger, rocker
      Victor Khournas, foot knight
      Mars, HeadWiz

      Generations of Darkness
      CT-1231 “Dog”, Stormtrooper
      Brodie Jaimes, Human Mercenary/Rebel
      Victor Slade, Republic Senator turned Rebel
      Shivas Anin, Jedi Knight

      Star Wars: Omens
      Kajj’ik Previn, Dark Acolyte
      Alpha-69 “Smoke,” Alpha-class clone
      Victor Slade, Republic Senator
      Rockabilly, Combat Staffer

      Realms Adventurous
      Kamron de Dinton, worthy knight
      Morlois de Willcot, unworthy knight

      The 100 MUSH
      Orion, Staffer
      Grey, angry ex-Guard Cadet
      Luther, veteran warrior

      Arx
      Gabriel Bisland, loyal duke (briefly)

      BSU
      Van, by-the-book Viper pilot
      Gustavo, gentle giant Marine

      Fires of Hope
      Erskine Hylle, ex-CIS rebel
      Devlin Cinn, Imperial deserter

      The Eighth Sea
      Leviathan, Staffer
      Sebastien Achille, swashbuckler
      Ebo, pirate revolutionary

      CoMUX
      Simon Green, OC SHIELD Agent
      Frank Castle, The Punisher

      Common Descent
      Simon Green, OC SHIELD Agent
      Frank Castle, The Punisher
      Roy Harper, Arsenal
      Barry Allen, The Flash

      Spirit Lake
      Diego Reyes, newly-hired Deputy
      Etta Tuscano, sword-wielding glassblower

      Gray Harbor
      Kevin Walters, geeky journalist/conspiracy theorist
      Marius Andersson, would-be Viking architecture student

      Dove Cove
      Simon, War College Professor

      Keys
      Diego Reyes, police officer

      The Last Road
      Finder, outrider and scout

      Stargate:
      Blake, Marine Staff Sergeant

      The Savage Skies
      Rome, Staff
      Thomas “Flash” Bradshaw, American show-off pilot
      Yao Sang, Chinese Shanghai Municipal Policeman
      Jimmy Walker, American Marine
      Stephane Idrissi, former French Foreign Legionnaire, “archaeologist”

      The Network
      Zack, Bruiser with a Heart of Gold

      Crystal Springs
      Oliver Webb, overachieving performer-geek
      Marius Anderssen, geeky handyman

      Currently Playing:
      The Network
      Roadspike, combat staffer
      Oscar, True Believer

      Excelsior
      Peter Parker, your friendly neighborhood Spider-Man
      Steve Rogers, America’s Ass.

      posted in Pals and Playlists
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    • RE: Star Wars Age of Alliances: Hadrix and Cujo

      @RedShoes said in Star Wars Age of Alliances: Hadrix and Cujo:

      Being on Staff is not a promotion

      Everyone knows how much bullshit this is. I mean, the whole post from Cujo is bullshit based on what’s been shared on this thread, but this part in particular.

      Is being Staff a lot of work? Absolutely. Is it a promotion? I mean, I guess that depends on your definition of a promotion, but it certainly increases your social capital on the game. Claiming that being added to Staff isn’t a promotion is mealy-mouthed gaslighting bullshit.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • Creating Impactful NPCs

      I’m nearly done with this video:

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VfxEeSevfE

      about a bit character in Stranger Things Season 4 (caution, spoilers) and how to create – and then kill – a character that viewers engage with and want to know more about.

      And I had to pause it because I was thinking, “Wow, this has a lot to do with how we create short- to medium-term NPCs, I should share it.” So here I am.

      What are some of the other ways that you create NPCs who hook players/characters in?

      posted in Helping Hands
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    • RE: On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof

      @spiriferida said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

      Talk openly about the atmosphere you want to create
      When people are acting shitty casually, don’t let it slide in the moment - call it out. “We don’t do that here” is a good phrase.
      Don’t wait for people to report things to remove someone> demonstrate your own patterns of behavior to your players.

      I cannot give better advice on creating an atmosphere of trust than these points. I also like “that’s not acceptable here” when calling out shitty behavior.

      Also, and perhaps most importantly, if someone does report something to you, follow up on it and get back to them afterwards. Even if it’s just to say, “I’ve heard you, I understand that you have concerns, I’m going to be watching this person extra closely, please use the report function if they contact you at all for any reasons, I’ve told them not to.” Letting people know that they’ve been heard and that you appreciate their report and have taken it seriously will be spread to their friends, and their friends will feel more comfortable coming forward too.

      Also also, if you remove someone from the game for bad behavior, be public about it. You don’t have to (and shouldn’t) include all of the gory details, but a general description of the unacceptable behavior and the fact that the person has been removed, posted to a public place, will make it clear what is not allowed.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    Latest posts made by Roadspike

    • RE: Casual-Friendly

      The Network also can suit very well for this. I definitely fit into the “can log in for a few hours a week if they have time, and engage, and have fun” descriptor and I feel like I can keep busy and engaged. Sure, I have some FOMO about things going on when I can’t attend, but that’s more me than the game.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: MU Peeves Thread

      @Gashlycrumb The internet is a wonderful, amazing thing for helping you find Your People – but it’s also a horrifying, disgusting thing for helping horrible, disgusting people find Their People, which convinces them that there are a ton of them and “everyone” will support them when they act on their horrible impulses because everyone in their echo chamber supports them when they talk about it.

      Having two neo-Nazis in a small rural town was bad enough, but they could just be the town’s missing stair that everyone knew about and avoided, but when those two chuckleheads can go online, find Their People, and get hundreds or thousands of positive responses for their bullshittery, it emboldens them to take their bullshittery offline.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: Shattered's Social Contract

      Here’s where we noticed it first:

      https://jamesmendezhodes.com/blog/2018/11/10/best-practices-for-historical-gaming

      I really love the idea, and love that it’s catching on. I think it’s great for keeping players from being blindsided either by something happening in a scene that they weren’t expecting, or from having their characters chewed out ICly for something that’s just part of the game world.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: What Do You Want Out of a MU?

      @Gashlycrumb said in What Do You Want Out of a MU?:

      Eh, “I want a prominant place in the story, while playing at a time offset from the rest of the group by seventeen hours,”

      I don’t think that this is what @Pavel is saying. It’s certainly not what I was saying when I made a similar comment. What I would like is to not be a Zeppo if I can’t make Prime Time Events (whatever time that might be for a given game). Or if I’m going to be a Zeppo, I want to be a Zeppo whose impact (even if it’s minor) is recognized. Gimme an announcement post about the thing that I did, have it get mentioned by an NPC (or a PC) in a Prime Time Event. Acknowledge that there are people playing the game and doing things even if they can’t make Prime Time Events.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: What Do You Want Out of a MU?

      @Pyrephox said in What Do You Want Out of a MU?:

      I want:

      Yeah, all of this. Seriously, all of this.

      Your second point really sticks out as key for me – I don’t need my RP to impact the overarching metaplot (if it does, that’s great, don’t get me wrong), but I want to see the world reacting to the actions of my character and those of other players.

      Also, I want to be able to play more than 8:30pm-11:30pm Pacific Time three nights per week, but that’s not a problem for the game, just for me.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent

      Many school boards do have policies for how to comport themselves on social media, or at the very least agreements on how they will do so. Unfortunately, school board challengers aren’t held to the same standards because they aren’t school board members yet – and because the alt-right whackjobs running for school boards don’t care about policies, rules, laws, or societal norms unless they’re screeching about how being welcoming to minorities of any sort (besides themselves) impinges on their “religious freedoms.”

      Source: Am school board member.

      @mietze – I would love to have a community discussion group like that in our district, even if 5-figures would be the entire voter base of our district (or more). Getting people to engage with what’s going on with schools when they don’t have a problem is super-hard.

      posted in No Escape from Reality
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    • RE: But Why

      @mietze said in But Why:

      You know, I actually don’t find this to be true. The truth is, you can have a 46 page document with every known instance…and the people who wish to play that type of thing are still going to do it. So it’s not that that is troublesome to me.

      I agree with you on this. I actually think that the more you enumerate the things that aren’t allowed, the more asshats will look at the list and find things that aren’t on it but are still horrible, and then point to the list and say that it wasn’t on the list.

      I like broad, blanket policies, with a few examples if necessary.

      @Polk One thing you might also consider is a social contract for your game: enumerate the things that are baked into the setting and won’t be questioned, the things that can be argued over ICly, and the things which simply won’t be allowed OOCly.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: Star Wars Age of Alliances: Hadrix and Cujo

      @Krautistanian said in Star Wars Age of Alliances: Hadrix and Cujo:

      Oh, another thing. I don’t entirely understand how they had 700 players recently.
      b13e105c-346c-4a8a-8dc3-41fa2839c48b-image.png

      This seems inflated. Even in Covid-Highs, we didn’t use to have so much activity.

      Not my monkeys, not my circus, but it looks like this is counting logins, not players. And then adding together all of those logins to get the “Total Players” number.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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    • RE: Requring Character Connections at Chargen

      I don’t know that I would be comfortable playing on a game that required me to make connections to existing PCs whose player I didn’t know, but knowing that NPCs can be used makes it better.

      I think that having multiple connections to a single NPC (or small group of NPCs) can allow those connections to be forged but with a degree of separation (“Oh, you work with Bob Medicman? I supply him with good booze.”) that can make things more comfortable.

      On Empty Night, we were planning to have all of our PCs have some explicit connection to an avuncular NPC wizard, so that all of the PCs would be part of the same community. Said wizard would be regularly played for the first couple of months of the game, and then would be killed on-screen. The intent was to give the PCs reason to draw together instead of fragmenting into little groups.

      I can understand the reasoning behind wanting to have characters come onto the grid with connections, but I certainly wouldn’t want to play anywhere that required those connections be to a PC whose player is a stranger to me.

      posted in Game Gab
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    • RE: MU Peeves Thread

      @imstillhere This feels particularly prevalent and particularly bad on comic book games. Like, part of Peter Parker’s THING is that he’s poor. If Iron Man is going to adopt him and move him into Stark Tower and showering him with money and bring Aunt May with him… that’s taking away some of who Peter IS.

      posted in Rough and Rowdy
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